Damn thought I fixed my post but i missed it. Fixed up now.
I would avoid calling 4wheelparts for advice in the future, they are bad news. I use them for checking out parts locally, but will take business elsewhere.
Had some time to do research and get facts straight.
-A sway bar relocate is for 3" lifts to move the bar towards the nose to clear coils. This is mainly for toytec, I didn't need it for the OME.
-a sway bar drop bracket is for 6" lifts to keep the sway rightside up. The main benefit is that it keeps the sway tucked up instead of being the first thing you hit.
Tim, take a look at this post, 8th pic. It's for an '04, but the drop brackets are the c-shaped things in the upper right. You can make some easy peasy.
the drop bracket would be easy to build and we probably will eventually but right now its doing what it needs to so he'll just have to avoid hitting any big rocks head on.
thanks for all the Info Mike!