came home w/ a new car!
No, don't worry, I didn't ditch the Tacoma. I noticed a Lexus RX330 in the Toyota Used Car lot next to the dealership and drove by just to see the price. Turned out it was just a touch over what I was hoping to spend (we've been looking for a while) and I talked them down to exactly what I wanted.
We're now a 100% Toyota family! I'll post pics as soon as I get her home. (I'm actually at the dealership now.)