I would challenge anybody who says 9mm are for pu$$ies! Let me shoot you once with a 9mm and then you can shoot me with a .45! A 9mm is much cheaper and just as fun to shoot! It is plenty capable of taking out most threats with the right ammo!
X1 except for the shooting each other part.
I can hit the paper at 25 feet with a .45 but I can put 8 out of a 10 round magazine in 7 ring and in with my 9mm. Big bores are fun to shoot but I won't bet my life on one. I will shoot what I'm comfortable with and that is the "pussy" 9mm.