So....I was in the Army but as far as this question goes I can't answer it. My buddy is going through a hard time right now. He's AGR in the Army Guard and his wife moved out about a month ago because she doesn't know what she wants and she wants to be independent....yet she moves in with her parents....shes a b****. Anyways....she has been stringing him along for a month now and he told her she has till the 15th to come home or he is filing for divorce. Well....he has been working his ass off to try and get her back home. He started going to another counseling service and continues to go to couples counseling even though she won't. She stopped wearing her wedding band (which broke his heart) he continues to pay all her bills....he even got on medication for the anger issues she claims he has. The only reason I see that he gets angry is because she constantly belittles him, makes smart remarks and doesn't respect him...and he acts out because he tries to force it. BTW....she just turned 21 and they just had a child and she leaves the baby with her trash parents. Her dad broke into his house (he didn't issue a warrant because as he said, "it's my babies grandfather and I don't want to mess things up) after he changed the locks and messed with a lot of stuff. They came over while he was at work and cleaned out the house, all the baby stuff, all the bedroom stuff. My buddy is doing all he can to keep his family together and she keeps trying to set him off. She even told him that she is perfect and has no flaws...I mean WTF...no one is. So....he is fed up now. They were supposed to go out to eat tonight but he had to work late and instead of waiting on him, she texts him and tells him if he is going to stay at work then they will just go somewhere later (meaning he can't see his little girl because her parents hate him and might do something if he goes onto their property) and then...even though she is "independent" now...she hit him up for money so she can go party with a friend and he refused because she won't do anything with him and she is pawning off their daughter again to go drink. Sorry it's so long but I had to give the details. I hate my buddy is going through all this shit. I have not liked this woman since day one. I was supposed to be the best man at their wedding. She called to get my work schedule so she could plan the wedding day. I gave it to her and she purposely scheduled the wedding on a day I wasn't home. I've been best friends with this guy for 10 years! I despise her....she's pure evil.
So...now for the question. He is worried that she is going to call his boss and tell him that he won't give her any money. Can she do this, and what can the military do? Keep in mind...she left on her own, has a job now with 0 bills and they are still married...not even legally separated.