I picked up the complete OME lift kit, plus the 10mm lift enhancer spacer rings. I forgot to get before measurements but it's supposed to be +3" over stock. It's the perfect amount of lift in my opinion.
Ride is tremendous! Love the feel. I've got the 881 coils and the ride is stiff but responsive (note: I do prefer my trucks to ride like trucks, not cadillacs!)
For the rear, I'm using the OME Dakar leaf pack plus the OME nitrocharger sport rear shocks. Looks to be about 2.5" lift so far. It should settle a little bit from what I've read.
I've used AALs on my old 2000 Tacoma and was pleased with them as well. I used the Toytec
AAL, but I'm sure Skyjacker is fine too. I opted for the full leaf pack this time because the leafs on my "new" 2004 tacoma were going into negative arch and I was getting gnarly axle wrap when starting/stopping.