After searching a bit, it seems torque values are kind of spread around the forums. Since I do not have a shop manual for my truck yet, I am trying to put together a set of torque setting for my 2012 in one spot.
For now, I researched suspension items since that was my first major modification. (borrowed mostly from BJMoose's OME install thread)
I'd appreciate any input on corrections.
Lower Shock Mount - 61 ft lbs
Upper Shock Hat center Jesus bolt (take it off accidently and you will be screaming his name, or something else) - 20 ft lbs
Upper Shock Hat Mount (3 small bolts) - 47 ft lbs
UCA to Frame * (long pain in the ass bolt) - 85 ft lbs
UCA to spindle (adjustment) - 60 ft lbs
Sway bar mount to frame - 30 ft lbs
Sway bar to spindle - 52 ft lbs
Lower Shock Mount - 74 ft lbs
Upper Shock Mount - 15 ft lbs
Rear Leaf Pack * (Front bolt and two rear bolts) - 89 ft lbs
Ubolts - 73 ft lbs (stock), 75 ft lbs can be recommended by some aftermarket vendors
Lugs * - 83 ft lbs
* torque under load (wheels resting on level ground under truck weight)
*edit for Ubolts* Toyota transposed numbers in the service manual for ubolt torque. It is actually 73 ft lbs and not 37.