girl problem

Alright, I can't believe I'm posting this...seems so juvenile but I really would like some helpful opinions. Through my work, I attend weekly meetings at a hospital and there's this nurse girl I see when I make my walkthroughs...I may have said "hi" in passing a few times but that's the extent of our contact. How do I approach this girl or get her number without looking like a idiot? Or is this something I should just forget all together?

Any ideas besides saying "Oh hey I pass you in the hall all the time, can I get your number?" I'm really an idiot with these things...maybe I'm over thinking this.

 

But maybe you're not.

 

"Hi, My name's Andrew. You'll be screaming that later."

 

Just relax, start a converstation, keep it going and ask if she wants to hang out or something and above all else smile...but not in a creepy way.

 

Take her out to food easy way to get numbers, if there single....like i said in another thread NURSES ARE HOT SHIT, thank you for backing me up

 

That's the trouble, no reason to hold any sort of conversation. We'll just walk by each other...I'd have to pull her to the side and stop her just to have a convo, which at that point would be odd.

 

or ask for a phone cause u "lost" yours and call your self

 

His thread could get good

 

Try walking with her, I did with a couple or nurses and patients at my hospital when I did my clinical time.

 

Just stop and talk to her. My second job is in an ER and I work with 85% women there. Just stop by say hi, dont talk about the weather thats just cheesy. What is it that you do there that can relate to her job?

 

Not to be a wet blanket, but you may be playing with fire. If the foray you had in mind were to go sour, you would have to put up with the consequences for as long as you held the job. There is also the issue of a potential sexual harassment claim regardless of its validity; my uncle knows from experience that HR departments do not trifle with such things.

 

LOL

 

OP are you black? you could just get straight to the point...."excuse me miss do you have some black in you?"
"no"
"would you like some black in you?"

I used it twice..worked once

 

IMHO, you are over thinking it. Walk up to her and if she isn't wearing a ring, ask her if she would like to get a cup of coffee in the cafeteria. If she isn't interested, she will (hopefully politely) say no thanks. If she is interested you may be buying her a ring in couple years.

My experience is that you will get rejected sometimes but sometimes you won't. For me (being a fat ugly guy), I had to rejected a lot before I found someone "willing". My odds were 1 in a 100 said yes. Since I had about 35 girlfriends, I was rejected 3465 times. Not a big deal. And my last girlfriend has been married to me for 12 years. Good luck man!

 

This... It's not a bar, can't just jump in the sack.