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Relationship Issue...Need help Bad!!!

Discussion in 'Off-Topic Discussion' started by tc2008, Oct 6, 2008.

  1. Oct 14, 2008 at 9:08 PM
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    Casey05Taco

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    Tell her you hate to see her go, but love to see her leave:D
     
  2. Oct 14, 2008 at 10:33 PM
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    tc2008

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    well guys...I've been realizing I have controlling issue and jealousy so therefore she's rebelling against everything I've been blocking her from, right now thanks to this break I'm starting to realize it so I need help. How can I control my rage of jealousy and controlling?
     
  3. Oct 14, 2008 at 10:34 PM
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    nighthawk87

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    I agree, move on man. There are plenty of girls out there. Your young...
     
  4. Oct 15, 2008 at 5:43 AM
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    Ken Dawg

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    maybe realize its not jealousy and control? Maybe you know she cannot be trusted?
    if the above is true she has validated your "gut" feeling.
     
  5. Oct 15, 2008 at 5:54 AM
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    mjp2

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    Be more confident in yourself and realize girls will only stay with you through free will and desire. It's their choice to stay or leave, and you have the same freedom.

    Basically, just relax and let people be themselves. Leave if you're not happy with your partner and expect them to do the same.

    Also, stay single for awhile. The idea is to be solo long enough to not desire someone else in your life. Once you've reached that level of comfort with yourself, you're healthy enough for a relationship of equals rather than one of mutually learned dependence.
     
  6. Oct 15, 2008 at 6:29 AM
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    stop blaming yourself for this skanks issues... you dont have the issue.. u didnt force her back to her ex... eff that shit.... boot her ass and come party with me at the college lol
     
  7. Oct 15, 2008 at 6:33 AM
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    nd

    nd Radical Town. It's a hell of a place!

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    or if you threaten them with a broken bottle and a punch in the ovaries....
     
  8. Oct 15, 2008 at 6:36 AM
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    nd

    nd Radical Town. It's a hell of a place!

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    Actually MJP2 has a good point. chicks dig confidence, and confident guys dont get jealous and controlling. he's also right about only dating when your comfortable with yourself. thats when you'll find the girl most suited to you. if you are not comfortable with yourself you'll date the first pair of legs to walk your way, even if you aren't compatible and you'll just end up in this situation again. nothing wrong with being single, i'm enjoying the hell out of it
     
  9. Oct 15, 2008 at 6:42 AM
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    I made sense to nd? Hrmm...I should probably consider sobering up a bit this morning...
     
  10. Oct 15, 2008 at 6:43 AM
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    you must be kidding. right??? She is manipulating you. The situation is even worse than what you let on to. If you put up with this now, eventually you'll be coming home from work and rubbing her feet and she will be staying home all day with her pool boy.
     
  11. Oct 15, 2008 at 6:48 AM
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    Quiet you! Up until recently I've only been a part-time pool boy. My dream is to one day achieve that full-time status, preferably with a neighborhood of housewives. :bananadance:
     
  12. Oct 15, 2008 at 6:56 AM
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    most people dont know this but i was going to school for counseling... specifically marriage counseling. but after working in a psych hospital for a year i decided i didn't want anything to do with psychology ever again
     
  13. Oct 15, 2008 at 7:03 AM
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    Hell yeah, dump her ass for all the above reasons. The relationship is clearly not going to work out. You're young and have many "opportunities." Be single for a little and have some fun. Plus you should spend that money on your true love - YOUR TRUCK. This will also provide more of said "opportunities."
     
  14. Oct 15, 2008 at 7:17 AM
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    ONCE AGAIN I SAY... RUN!!!! HAHA BEFORE ITS TO LATE! :frusty:
     

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