Gfs dad is being abusive. I need Help!

Sounds like something a cop would say.....

 

ain't dat da troof

 

what about the little sister if she leaves? anyone think about that?

 

Move in together. Time for her to leave.

 

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Always the thinker Mr. Bean...... nice

 

I hate to say it but I agree with tigerfan. The gf needs to get out if the situation is that bad.

As far as the little sister, the gf's mom needs to deal with that. If the father is really that verbally abusive to her and the kids, it's time to gtfo. It sucks sitting back and watching a situation like that but people need to take the first step and do something to help themselves first before you can really offer to do anything.

 

dude, you know as well as i do, if we worried about every kid out there whos parents were fuck ups and never gave them a fighting chance at life, or whose mothers dont bother to get them out of the shitbag sitch for whatever reason, we would have heart attacks before our shift ended. just like if we worried about every douche that threatened to kick our ass. there is only so much we can do, unfortunately its up to the OP's gf to figure out her OWN situation, and up to the mother and sister to figure out theirs. some people just plain dont like being alone, if that means they live with a raging meatwhistle for the rest of their lives... some people just dont get it.

 

This has to stop, it can easily escalate and you end up with dead people...

http://www.domesticviolence.org/

 

Yeah, beating somebody up won't help the fact that you will still have to change her living situation. If the violent offender will not seek the proper treatment, the bad condition will continue and get worse.

As a general rule, you should not hang around with people who insult you, so the best thing would be to get out of there.

Maybe have her shoot a video of him going off as evidence.

 

obviously mom isnt doing shit.

 

Thank you guys for all the kinds words and being real with that is happening. I never thought about some of these things. I dont have the greatest mind lol so im glad I have you guys.


As much as I wanna go and beat the crap out of him, I'm not doing that. I'm not a guy thats gonna start a fight and all hell breaks loose.Im better then that. I guess some of this stuff has to do with money too. I mean the father has a secertiy job and I still make more an hour then him. I'm trying to help her and get her out of the house but its hard. When a girl has no money and Im just as broke, its twice as hard. I'm really trying to save up for an apartment and stuff for the to of us. That would make things more better. The father doesnt have a drinking problem. I think being in the war made him a tough guy and thats he is all that. She is the youngest of the two. The older sister is 22 and lives at home too. Im trying my best to make it better for the 2 of us. I never loved someone as much as I love here so Im going to do whatever it takes to make it work and make her happy.


And about the convry of tacoma trucks helping me out haha. That would be one great of a pick up crew lol. She would hate it cause she hates toyota but I was be so happy lol. If i need some N.E guys to help me ill let you know

Thanks again guys. Your the best.

 

I got some infor. Her mom yelled at the dad while my gf walked outside to the nearest park. I guess the dad was so mad cause she walked out.

 

bingo

 

Yes her sister is 22 and still at home. My gf has been looking for jobs. Non stop everyday and still nothing. She has been calling places and still nothing. Finding jobs is hard now a days.

 

That's a lot of drama. I guess that's what happens when you date 19 year olds. Tell her to GTFO of her house. If she doesn't listen, bail. You don't want to deal with that.