Just needing a few guys stand point on a situation. I have been dating the same girl coming up on 3 years the end of this month. We have been seperated for about 3 weeks now because we had been fighting and really just not showing each other what we needed to show one another as it came down toward the end. (The sick of being around one another, but still care about each other thing) Anyway so the last week, we have been kind of talking to one another and i have been the bigger man and apoligized for the way it ended and told her how i really felt. However, when i talk to her i didn't get the same vibe coming from her like i was telling her. After we broke up for about 3 or 4 days, a boy i know was trying hard as can be to try and talk to her and giving her attention like she was craving. I found her leaving his house one night and when confronted her about it, she promised nothing happened. So i told her it was over with and it's came down to she gets really jealous if i "Talk" to another woman but whenever i ask her to do something she might want to hang out or she might not. Anyway i'm getting the whole vib about she not wanting to lose me, but just not sure what she wants as of now. I've been texting and talking to her the past couple days but have finally just said i'm done putting myself out there and trying to make this thing work. Every little thing we do turns into an argument because we tell each other we want each other but since we're single, people triy to talk to us and it just turns into another fight. I have tried and tried to show her that there is really no one else i want to be around at the moment but she just can't get her head around that.
And i KNOW that you will never figure a woman out, but i just thought i would ask someone's elses opinion or if you have been in the same situation as this. Should i just let her go and see if she comes back? Talk to other people? Wait on her or what? I'm really not the type of guy to go out and cheat or want to hang out with a different girl every night so i'm really stuck at the moment. So now my man card is revoked, what do you all think?