What is your opinion?
My wife and I take our first grader to weekly scout meetings.
Our boys are friends with a 3rd grade female and she comes over fairly often and wants to go to the scout meetings with us about half the time.
I personally have no problem letting her go. But I feel a bit rude.
Here is the question.
Is it rude to the other members of our den? We take turns providing snacks and activities for the kids. It is not the other parents responsibility to provide these things for a non-member.
At the risk of sounding a bit sexist, it would be slightly different if the friend was a male and was going to the meetings as a potential recruit.