Let me hear your thoughts

First, i am an older cat....53... been around, Army, contract work & other jobs that took me here and there....Made good & bad choices....I usually knew when i was making a wrong decisions for myself but i allowed other things to influence me... What is right for one is not always right for another.
The answer is very simple...The answer is right there..... Gut check time..
How do you feel about it??? If the panel says Abort or Green lights it & you feel differently, will it change your course of action, your feelings?..
Looks like your in the Navy, i do not know age or background of you or her, Hell i do not what Geo Bachelor means.. Had to look it up.....
Every emotional decision has ramifications, That you are questioning it already tells me you are black flagging it...
If you are already feel uneasy, trust that feeling.. You do not want or need that emotional confusion, If you speak with her about it & she disregards those emotions. You need to reflect on her way of thinking...
Be wise... Will this be a cause of constant stress? Will these lead to arguments? Lastly will this cause you to ever confront one of these Geo Fellows???
Stand down for a few days, Reflect...you already know how you feel, attempt to feel how she feels, then make a decision that is best for both. That could mean you still see each other or that it is best due to circumstances that you stop seeing one another...
My 2 cents..
Good luck, affairs of the heart are the most difficult....

 

Thanks guy. Some good opinions on here. I am 24 and she is 26. I have already let her know how I feel. If she follows through with it I already have my mind made up as how to handle it.

 

That,









Is a sign...

 

I forsee roommate sex.

Have fun dealing with it.

 

What you gonna do

 

If she can't see why this would bother you (doesn't matter the age) then leave before she ends up hurting you. She might be faithful but not even considering why you would be a little hesitant is a no go.

 

You don't trust her or you just don't like the situation?

If you don't trust her, she's gone.

If you don't like the situation, play it out see how it goes. If you like what you have with her, no point in moving on because she doesn't obey your orders.

Since she's moving into a place with two guys that are already in relationships, that's a shitton better than two single dudes.

 

I wouldn't like it and think it is wrong