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Old 07-19-2013, 04:25 AM   #1
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Let me hear your thoughts

So, I wanna hear your guys thoughts on this.

I've been dating this girl for roughly 4 months. Her lease is up on her apartment at the end of the month so she has been looking for a new place to live. She is currently living with 2 other girls in a 3 bedroom house. She found a new place on craigslist that is closer to work and she will have a bigger bedroom. HOWEVER, she will be living with 2 male geo bachelors that she has never met before. I am uncomfortable with this. She seems to be unable to see why this bothers me.

What do guys think about this?
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Old 07-19-2013, 04:32 AM   #2
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If shoe was on the other foot.....

Can't understand why she is not able to understand you being uncomfortable with that,.....ask her how she would feel about you moving in an apartment with two female roommates.
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Old 07-19-2013, 04:40 AM   #3
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Time to move on.
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Old 07-19-2013, 04:42 AM   #4
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why is she moving? why not renew the lease? if she CANT see why that would be an issue, time to kick her to the curb, just what i would do, probably why im single..

edit; if it would be 2 guys she knew ,and you met and would be comfortable with that would be different obviously, but 2 random aol chatroom guys, ehhh f that
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Old 07-19-2013, 05:06 AM   #5
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Can't understand why she is not able to understand you being uncomfortable with that,.....ask her how she would feel about you moving in an apartment with two female roommates.
It's different IMO. 2 guys 1 girl vs. 2 girls 1 guy just kinda brings up security concerns and a different dynamic... I'm sorta cynical though
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Old 07-19-2013, 05:33 AM   #6
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If you can't trust her now how crazy you going to get in a year if she even looks at another guy? Want to kick in the extra rent so she can be by her self?
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Old 07-19-2013, 05:42 AM   #7
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Time to move on.
Agreed.
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Old 07-19-2013, 05:47 AM   #8
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Either move on or move her in with you if y'all gel enough to make that work but remember and be careful because you never know someone until you live with them....careful what you wish for and there are plenty o fish in the sea and error on the side of your own financial/personal safety and all that. If it don't seem right, don't ignore it.........end soapbox warning sermon and good luck widdit.
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Old 07-19-2013, 06:07 PM   #9
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I guess I can't understand why SHE is okay with moving in with TWO DUDES she's never met.
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Old 07-19-2013, 07:03 PM   #10
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Does seem odd...but I've met some girls that are pretty trusting like that. I'm definitely not like that lol. Were there not any other options as far as places/roommates go? Has she at least met these people before just rolling in with her stuff? If I'm understanding right, these guys are both married/seeing someone and in the military yes? (Geo bachelor)
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Old 07-19-2013, 07:06 PM   #11
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its her life and its totally up to her...but i would move on..
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Old 07-19-2013, 07:09 PM   #13
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So, I wanna hear your guys thoughts on this.

I've been dating this girl for roughly 4 months. Her lease is up on her apartment at the end of the month so she has been looking for a new place to live. She is currently living with 2 other girls in a 3 bedroom house. She found a new place on craigslist that is closer to work and she will have a bigger bedroom. HOWEVER, she will be living with 2 male geo bachelors that she has never met before. I am uncomfortable with this. She seems to be unable to see why this bothers me.

What do guys think about this?
I wouldn't be comfortable with two unknown guys, alcohol makes people do stupid things. Perhaps, this is her way of feeling you out to see if you will ask her to move in with you... If you do cover your ass make a house account that you and she deposit money to pay the house bills everything else is separate. You split rent, food, trash, water, elec, cable-internet etc. You both have cells keep it that way and be done. That is only if you are really liking this girl.

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Old 07-19-2013, 07:09 PM   #14
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My thoughts are this:

She will end up with one, or both of the guys she is living with.
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Old 07-19-2013, 07:15 PM   #15
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Take it for what it is, roll with it and have fun. Good luck.
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Old 07-19-2013, 07:16 PM   #16
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My thoughts are this:

She will end up with both of the guys she is living with at the same time.
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Old 07-19-2013, 07:17 PM   #17
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If you have any thoughts at all that she might be unfaithful...then move on!


On the other hand, if you don't BUT she tells you down the road that one of the room mates were inappropriate...break their jaw
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I wouldn't be comfortable with two unknown guys, alcohol makes people do stupid things. Perhaps, this is her way of feeling you out to see if you will ask her to move in with you... If you do cover your ass make a house account that you and she deposit money to pay the house bills everything else is separate. You split rent, food, trash, water, elec, cable-internet etc. You both have cells keep it that way and be done. That is only if you are really liking this girl.

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This is why women frustrate me. Always testing men...just freaking ask.
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This is why women frustrate me. Always testing men...just freaking ask.
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How old are you OP? And how old is this girlfriend?
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