engagement ring

Well... if you're not absolutely crazy about her, then don't get married, and especially if you aren't living with each other yet. But if you do decide to go through with it, move in with her and see how things go first. I know way too many people who basically lived separate lives from their Girlfriends, never lived with each other, then when they did get hitched and moved in, they found all this stuff out about the person they thought they knew. Either that or they couldn't stand being around each other 24/7. It would be good to find that stuff out in advance.

 

Just chimed in. I was in the same boat as you, and I waited for about 6 months or so. The thing is, if she really is the girl of your dreams, are you willing to spend the rest of your lives together fighting? I'd think about that for a while.

Also, if everything is really good except for the fights, I would recommend you guys go through some marriage counseling prior to getting married. If you two believe there is some hope, then counseling is a very good option. Just check your egos at the door.

 

Huh....well there's the side that you could be getting back together or give it to somebody else someday but...

You could buy a S/C, trd cai, trd exhaust, lift, rims.......

Or S/C, cai, exhaust, and bank the rest. The market may be kinda stable but it's not gonna be this stable (or this low) forever, I hope.

 

well after trying to work things out and just fighting all week i decided to grow some balls took the ring back told her to have a nice life she wanted to fight about it but i just walked away didnt want to hear it . i feel alot better about it thought i would be heart broken and im not been a few days she keeps trying to call and text me im . just ignoring her . been doing alot of thinking what girl needed a 15000 ing you guys were right . my friend is taking th ring back at the jewlery store thank god think i might get the trd supercharger as a gift to myself and get my rims and lift installed ill post picks if i do it thanks again for everything everyone said i took it to heart and really thought about it helped make my mind up

 

Good work, I'm glad it seems to have worked out well so far.

 

dont go back !!! the sayin "if it dont work the 1st time it wont work at all" is true as they come!!!.... sell the ring, have the time of ur life with ur buddys, ur truck, and any girl that u want!!! women are like napkins, everywhere u go they are there if u need them! lol and just some info, all women are crazy! some switches just aint got turned on yet!

 

X2 and I definitely wanna see those pics.

 

So that's how you got the supercharger! Well played my friend. I woulda done the same...marriage woulda only made the situation worse.

 

Holy revival.

 

good job! have fun!

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holy shit. just saw how old this thread is. haha How is life treating ya these days? ever get back with her?

 

I sure as hell wouldn't get back with the girl. it's easier to do the on/off thing single than married/divorced/married/divorced.

Move on. keep the ring. Sell it when gold goes back on the upswing. Though to be honest, it's the diamond, not the gold, that keeps the price that high. Don't give it to another girl in the future - that's asking for a break up.

 

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Take it from my experience. If you are fighting now, marriage isn't going to fix it. It will only get worse. She may not be the one. Like others said, Divorce is so much more expensive. Trust me there is someone out there more compatible for you. I found such a person. We were married the 1st of July after dating a year & a half. We have never had a fight. I have never had that with anyone.

 

holy shit forgot about this thread i actually got back with her a few weeks after this. Everything was fine for a few months than it all started again alot of fighting over her mother nothing i do is good enough (her mothers tiawanese and i guess she wants her with an asian guy not my big german ass lol even though her fathers german )i actually gave her the ring back when we got back together (stupid i know) we still talk and fool around once in a while but nothin to serious . we talk about getting back together but it will never last to bad she was something special . i actually got a pretty large settlement at work from when i got hurt thats how i bought the cai and the supercharger paid my truck off and my house .

 

Return the ring.........quit both jobs, move to the midwest and get 1 job,and find the ring for a cheaper price...........