Most recent Facebook chat with the girl

Today yeah you told the truth and yeah i suppose you did the right thing, but why would you do that to me.?
Lents
I dont know. I was lost and confused during all of that ok
Lents
im sorry thanks,.
Lents
about what? idk, just said it
i have nothing to be sorry for.....
Lents
Listen. Im super sorry about everything ive done. I was a jerk a creep and I take the blame for everything. I just wish the best for you and Drew and the rest of your family thanks
Lents
your welcome... Its probably still too early to say this. but are we still friends?
or do you not know idk.... i dont know if i can trust you or anything... i need time from not talking to you and i need to be away a little
Lents
alright thats fine. I understand.
I should have done nothing i honestly wish i never got involved in this! all it did was cause problems
Lents
Me too. ill talk to you around or something i guess
Lents
I think part it was cause i presured you into breaking up with Drew
and pressing you into liking me. I feel horrible for doing that to you you should!!!! sry but you should.
Lents
I know. An I do. I dont even feel like I should be talking to you right now...... or ever just not now!!!
Lents
alright well ill leave you alone..
Talk to you later on ok, bye
Lents
bye.... bye
Lents
one mre thing.... what..!??
Lents
Whats Drew think of me dont know, and i dont care! whats the big deal.?
Lents
i dont know. I just want things to be right again.
They way they need to be. well i dont think thats gonna happen sorry.....
and did your mom get my message.?
Lents
I know cause I screwed everything up.
Um i dont know... which one? the two i sent
Lents
Oh yeah. Thats what I texted you about okay.....
what did she say about me to you.?
Lents
She just said that you were a sweet girl and that it was really nice of her to send a message like that oh thats it.?
Lents
Yeah nothing bad. okay, but thats it.?
Lents
She probably said some other stuff.... but i was so focused on this stuff. ugh
Lents
actually I know she did. when did she say that.?
Lents
This morning well tell me please
Lents
She said that and then she wanted to know what was going on. I told her. and she was just like well the best you can do is to be yourself and be honest with her and Drew what ALL DID YOU SAY EXACTLY.?
Lents
I didnt tell anything about your past.
Just what was going on then well why did you tell drew what i told you about my past.?
Lents
I thought he knew. yeah he did.... but we didnt wanna bring it up again and i said that.
Lents
when? i trusted you, but looks like that just doesnt work either..........last night when i told u
Lents
Thats all ive told
I swear mk
Lents
Stacie come on. Please dont be like this be like what.?
Lents
I dont mean to hurt you im not falling into your stuff anymore!!!!!
Lents
Please just dont be like this
What stuff your litte trap things, to make me loose the best thing i have in life!!!!!
Lents
What traps? Oh my god really?
I dont do that just cause mkay
Lents
Thats not my personality
Or what I do. Stop bein like this. mmmhhhhhhmmmmm whatever
Lents
Im doing my best to make things straight and appearantly Im just fucking it up even more

Lents
So im just gonna slam my head against the wall and call it a night whatevr... that shit isnt working for me, the whole feeling guilt things!!!!
Lents
IT DOESNT HAVE TOO! CAUSE I DID FUCKIN ALL OF IT!!!
I CARED FOR YOU. i DID EVERYTHING IN MY POWER TO DO THINGS RIGHT. i DONT THINK I CAN TRUST YOU AFTER WHAT YOU DID TO ME WHAT I DID TO YOU!!!!!! You pressured me into this i didnt pressure you into anything!
Lents
You lied to me...... saying that you really liked me when you could have said I dont YOU DID THIS, NOT ME DONT SAY YOU DONT TRUST ME, THERE IS NO REASON YOU SHOULDNT TRUST ME! I DIDNT DO ANYTHING! WHATEVER, I KNEW YOU WERE TOTALLY DIFFERENT INSIDE
WHATEVER!
Lents
MAKING IT SO HARD ON ME.
YOU COULD HAVE SAID NO TO EVERYTHING
WE COULD HAVE BEEN FRIENDS AND NONE OF THIS WOULD BE HAPPENING THIS WAS HARD ON YOU! YEAH IM SURE...... YOU HAVE NNNNOOOO IDEA HOW HARD THIS WAS ON ME AND HOW MUCH PAIN I WENT THROUGH! WHATEVER LENTS
Lents
YOU COULD HAVE SAID WE SHOULD WAIT A WHILE. I DID!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
Lents
could have told me more times
You only told me once
ONCE!
And Im not differnt on the inside.
I was when I was with you but I screwed everything up and now I am a dfferent person
You hurt my heart...... you really did
I thought we had something going....... that why i did all that stuff for you what stuff for me.?
kiss me on the head with out saking, all that.?
Lents
No for giving you a warm house to come into
for my mom to make you feel like your 2nd mom
to show you what I can give
movies and the brownie stuff That I bought
To show you that I can buy stuff on my own with out any one else paying for it
Showing you that there is a guy who understands you and likes you and doesnt cheat or abuse you
Theres also a guy that had strong feelings for you. drew does not cheat or abuse me!!!!!!!!
Lents
Well then why did you say that? look, thanks for all that ok thanks, but i got to go.....
i NEVER said that.....
Lents
bull crap I GOT TO GO! BYE
Lents
You told me over texts
see ya no i didnt, whatever
so not the guy i thought you were.... and yeah see ya
Lents
What do you mean? I tried to make everything right for you.
But you blew me off like a puppet
You didnt care about me
You didnt care about anything I gave you
I am the guy you have talked to on the phone for 2 hours each night
Im the same..... you just think differently of me cause I tell the truth no i dont. you just.. i got to go, ill see ya around@ goodbye
Lents
bye

 

shoot

 

I can't believe I just read that haha. Its like high school all over again where you fall in love with the first girl that pays attention to you. The best advice I have ever read is what mjp2 left on the last thread

 

Yeah I know its HS but I need to resolve this.


Its still sinking in

 

Lents.

You're all good man. Just be a friend to her. Give her a little space and time.

It'll work itself out.

 

listen bud you gotta get out of this drama... i have been through all of this before and you just need to step back and realize that you are too young to deal with this and you don't need the drama. just try to move on and get on with your life. women are crazy and thats something you gotta realize, you can do everything right and it still won't be enough. sorry this is so shitty for you, good luck.

 

After that you better believe I am

 

I know we have ALL been there. Just step back and look at it as at a different perspective. Even if you wound up together, you still have years of high school, years of college then finding a career before you have your life in order. Only then you just begin considering making room in your life for someone else.

I went through something similar last summer. Anyone who knows my current realationship knows its a match made in heaven, but I still never consider anything serious until I figure out what I am doing in my life. It would not be fair to her to commit to something serious when I donot know how to provide for myself, let alone a life with her

 

I actually feel better now after reading this over and over again

 

Resolve it by being done with it. Stop reading it over and over...Stop worrying about her...Go find some other people to hang out with. Don't worry about finding someone to fill her spot. Just have fun and see what happens...

Dwelling on it will take you to a bad place and @ your age- No reason to go there.

It's all about having a good time- and that convo doesn't look like a good time to me...so bailout.

 

Lents little bro, relax man.

 

ahhhh highschool.

DO NOT...and i repeat DO NOT act as though she is the only girl in the world for you. Talk to her occassionally but dont be soooooo obsessive with her. Act like none of it bothers you.....find a new chick, and eventually she'll want you back.

 

Just like everyones sayin man, just relax and let whatever happens happen. Your only 16 you have so many things to experience yet, just enjoy bein in highschool while you still are. Freinds will be the best thing to get your mind off everything. Get out there and just let loose, you only have one chance to do all this, dont let a girl hold you back. I went through all of highschool single, and it was probly the best decision ive ever made. I just did whatever i wanted, you have the rest of your life to be tied down, but not the rest of your life to be carefree.

 

or bang her best friend..........that should spice things up.

 

or her siser,or mom.


but lents isnt into that kinda stuff

 

Fixed it for you....

 

I read a chat log? How bored am I?

Dude, the more you try and talk your way out of this and try to get her to like you, the deeper the hole you dig yourself. And not just with her. The split tail will talk to everyone that will listen that you are a sappy love struck puppy.

Let your balls drop and let this slut go. Screw Drew and screw her. Go live your life and don't say shit to either of them. You have apparently f-'ed up that relationship, so move on. There are other chicks around, surely, even you can find another one to creep out.

Seriously, let this one go before you become "that creepy stalker dude with the Tacoma." You did all you could do and it blew up. No big deal, just keep on living life. It'll happen again soon enough and you can become jaded and not give a crap like me. Then all the ladies come crawling... or not.

 

Seriously. Lent. you just posted a IM conversation..That's pretty lame. At 16 you are worrying to much about this crap. It may seem like the end of the world, but it's going to happen again and again. Only thing you can do is get over it. And get on with your life.

A bit of advice, Stop talking to her. Sometimes if you seem like you dont care, And you are over it. It makes women stop and think twice about themselves. (I dunno why that works, But it does sometimes)