Dont know where to post this, but hope i got it in the right place.
I am now in the process of getting seperated from my wife. We almost seperated last march, but she got better and i gave her a chance. But now i just cant see us being together much longer.
The reason why we are seperating is because she thinks i value money more than love, she always throws back to me what i said to her to the point its like i am talking to a mirror. Another one is that i am 31 years old, and i have to pracatlly beg to get some in bed and thats ususally once a month. I am too young to not have it when i want it. last time she made the first move or anything was back in november. I worked hard and went to school the same time as working so that i could get a degree so that i could get a better job. Well i got my dream job making the money i deserve and it has putten a big drift on us. She does things all the time that she knows gets me mad. Its gotten to the point where i have no more love for her. But at the same time i feel bad because i have a 6 year old daughter and I dont want to lose her. but i gotta be happy myself. I always have to hear her supection that i like someone else because i work with alot of woman in the hospital setting, and also she always ask 2 to 5 times a day. do you love me, whats wrong with you, or if i have a converstation with her, she will tick me off by saying whoa why are you so angery why do you have alot of anger. She always thinks of herself. example she packed all her woman crap when we went to skiing, and packed my toothbrush, but didnt pack my deoderant, even though its in the same drawer as everything else is. I asked her about it and she said she couldnt pack everything. i was like its in the same drawer... and she was off all day while i worked a 8 to 5 job. To top it of shes completely deaf, and everytime i get an important phone call related to work shes like whos that whos that bothering me all the time while i am on the phone when she knows i cant talk to her and the phone at the same time.
Sorry for a long post, but i just dont know what to do. I got an appt with the lawyer on march to discuss my options. I just dont want to get raped for child support, (cant really afford it since i have all the student loans and debts in my name)
I am to the point where i am depressed and my co workers see it also.