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Dad passed away suddenly

Discussion in 'Personal & Emotional Support' started by akwagon, Sep 14, 2010.

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  1. Sep 14, 2010 at 7:41 AM
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    Janster

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    Janster Old & Forgetful

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    I know what you're going through....2 years ago, my father-in-law passed and it was a total shock. I was probably closer to him than my own father. My husband and I have done everything to help my mother-in-law get through the red tape. We did seek a lawyer for some of the finer details because some things we weren't sure (legally) we could handle. It was for the best....

    There's a couple songs on my ipod that remind me of him. Everytime I hear those songs, it makes me cry all over again.

    You'll get through this.....and there's nothing like family support & love to help you do it together. Peace and prayers to you and your family.
     
    Janster, Sep 14, 2010
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  2. Sep 14, 2010 at 10:01 AM
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    BassPilot

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    I'm so sorry man. I know what you're going through. Remember the happy memories and see him in yourself when you do things that remind you of him.
     
    BassPilot, Sep 14, 2010
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  3. Sep 14, 2010 at 10:05 AM
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    Jester243

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    Jester243 all I wanted was a god dang picture of a hotdog...

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    some of this, a little of that
    :pray: Sorry to hear
     
    Jester243, Sep 14, 2010
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  4. Sep 14, 2010 at 10:10 AM
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    topgun155

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    Sorry to hear. Stay strong.
     
    topgun155, Sep 14, 2010
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  5. Sep 14, 2010 at 10:10 AM
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    ilove_taco_ma

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    sorry for your loss man. prayers for your family.
     
    ilove_taco_ma, Sep 14, 2010
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  6. Sep 14, 2010 at 10:11 AM
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    blackhawke88

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    blackhawke88 wo ai ni bao bei ^_^

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    :pray:
     
    blackhawke88, Sep 14, 2010
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  7. Sep 14, 2010 at 10:31 AM
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    mntbiker2008

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    mntbiker2008 First I derp.. then I herp

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    wow sorry to hear man. My condolences to you and your family.
     
    mntbiker2008, Sep 14, 2010
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  8. Sep 14, 2010 at 10:40 AM
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    Aggie97

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    Sorry for your loss...thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
     
    Aggie97, Sep 14, 2010
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  9. Sep 14, 2010 at 10:42 AM
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    lucabi

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    prayers for you and your family
     
    lucabi, Sep 14, 2010
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  10. Sep 14, 2010 at 10:45 AM
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    Blackened Taco

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    My condolences, my dad passed when he was fifty and I was just 23, I get it. Wish yourself and your family the best in a very tough and unexpected time.
     
    Blackened Taco, Sep 14, 2010
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  11. Sep 14, 2010 at 11:39 AM
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    05tacoSPORT

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    I lost my dad suddenly as well 54 and it does really suck. Time is the only thing that will help. But if you nned to speak with a man in your same shoes let me know. You and you family must trust god and all
    Of his ways. Prayers sent and don't be like me and have too much pride to ask for help.
     
    05tacoSPORT, Sep 14, 2010
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  12. Sep 14, 2010 at 11:45 AM
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    01tacoprerunner

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    Prayers sent, focus on the good times you had with him, just know that he is watching over you now man.
     
    01tacoprerunner, Sep 14, 2010
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  13. Sep 14, 2010 at 11:50 AM
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    Sorry for your loss! Prayers sent. :pray::pray:




    If you need to rant this is the place.
     
    Danosabre, Sep 14, 2010
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  14. Sep 14, 2010 at 12:20 PM
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    Incognito No better friend, no worse enemy

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    :pray: Sorry to hear. :(
     
    Incognito, Sep 14, 2010
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  15. Sep 14, 2010 at 12:39 PM
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    THExBUSxDRIVER

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    THExBUSxDRIVER Victory is reserved...

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    Man I can't imagine the pain, so sorry for your pain. Thoughts and prayers to you and yours.
     
    THExBUSxDRIVER, Sep 14, 2010
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  16. Sep 14, 2010 at 12:45 PM
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    So sorry to hear about your loss. My own dad passed away this past March. Prayers sent to you and your family.
     
    oldtacomaguy, Sep 14, 2010
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  17. Sep 14, 2010 at 12:48 PM
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    I'm so very sorry for you loss.:(
     
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  18. Sep 14, 2010 at 4:14 PM
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    This forum rocks, thank you to everyone. You hear stories of it happening. But you never think it could happen to you or your family. The details of getting everything settled for mom are a PIA. We did go the attorney route for some stuff that is over our heads.
     
    akwagon, Sep 14, 2010
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  19. Sep 14, 2010 at 4:22 PM
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    Sorry to hear about that. The 28th of this month makes 1 year for my dad's passing that was unexpected as well.
     
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  20. Sep 14, 2010 at 4:23 PM
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    moto932 What's the matter, Colonel Sandurz? CHICKEN?

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    chris i am sorry to hear about your sudden loss. prayers sent to you and your family. :pray:
     
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