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Here I Go Again On My Own...

Discussion in 'Personal & Emotional Support' started by BRUIN8124, Jul 14, 2014.

  1. Jul 14, 2014 at 12:36 PM
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    BRUIN8124

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    BRUIN8124 [OP] Well-Known Member

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    I got home from work Sunday and my wife dropped a bomb on me... "Can we talk?'

    She wants a divorce...

    Its one of those things that I saw coming but stunned me none the less...

    I have rough road ahead of.me. any thoughts and prayers would be appreciated.

    On a lighter note, I spent the day detailing the Taco. Its how I relieve stress. If anyone can understand that, its you guys.

    Wish me luck!

    Off to find an apartment... Yuck...
     
    BRUIN8124, Jul 14, 2014
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  2. Jul 14, 2014 at 12:41 PM
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    stmpjmpr

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    DAMN.
     
    stmpjmpr, Jul 14, 2014
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  3. Jul 14, 2014 at 4:04 PM
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    coffeesnob

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    sorry to hear that> Is it beyond repair?
     
    coffeesnob, Jul 14, 2014
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  4. Jul 14, 2014 at 4:07 PM
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    1TUFFTRD

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    1TUFFTRD WTF

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    Ouch!
     
    1TUFFTRD, Jul 14, 2014
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  5. Jul 14, 2014 at 4:07 PM
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    T-Rex266

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    T-Rex266 Elon Musk Moderator

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    Wow man, I'm sorry to hear that...if it can't be worked out, hopefully you guys can remain civil.
     
    T-Rex266, Jul 14, 2014
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  6. Jul 14, 2014 at 4:11 PM
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    Chopper678

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    Praying for you OP. Good luck to you and I hope y'all can work things out.
     
    Chopper678, Jul 14, 2014
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  7. Jul 14, 2014 at 4:11 PM
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    Jester243

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    Jester243 all I wanted was a god dang picture of a hotdog...

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    some of this, a little of that
    Sorry to hear man, we are around even if you just need to vent.

    Good luck
     
    Jester243, Jul 14, 2014
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  8. Jul 14, 2014 at 4:12 PM
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    skidooman

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    skidooman I'm your huckleberry

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    Bum deal. Like was said above, is it fixable?
     
    skidooman, Jul 14, 2014
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  9. Jul 15, 2014 at 1:12 AM
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    MGMTacolover55

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    That sucks man! I'll be praying for you.
     
    MGMTacolover55, Jul 15, 2014
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  10. Jul 15, 2014 at 1:30 AM
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    The6pharaohs

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    The6pharaohs WTF just happened?

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    Sorry op, I'll have a beer for ya this weekend bro :cheers:
     
    The6pharaohs, Jul 15, 2014
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  11. Jul 15, 2014 at 4:51 AM
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    BulletToothTony

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    BulletToothTony You’ll have that on these big jobs.

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    Sorry to hear that man. Hope y'all can work it out, if not wish you the best...
     
    BulletToothTony, Jul 15, 2014
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  12. Jul 15, 2014 at 6:22 AM
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    Winker

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    I hope it all works out for the best.

    Crap, I just watched Louis CK and it's probably too soon to recommend watching his standup.
     
    Winker, Jul 15, 2014
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  13. Aug 8, 2014 at 8:15 AM
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    Hey man, I'm in a very similar boat. My wife of 6 years, been together for over 12, two kids, dropped the same thing on me early in July. I'd been bopping between places (summer camp with my son, then house sitting for a friend) when I cornered her on filing to get the ball rolling so I could move on and let the kids in the loop when she decided to do a seperation instead. Is your wife willing to do that?

    I've got some books that I've ordered that should be coming in that get good reviews. Once I start the read I can give you the names if they're worth it. If you can get her to try a seperation (even if not the legal kind, we don't have those in Michigan) then maybe it'll give her time to think. In my case my wife doesn't have anyone else and neither do I(as far as bf/gf). I've had to evaluate what went wrong and you probably should as well, there has to be a disconnect somewhere. Do a lot of research and take it all with a grain of salt, not everyone is the same and not all addvice is good.

    If you feel the need to PM me, feel free, I'll give you my cell or email there. I'm not sure I'll be the best to offer advice as this, its my first venture in this territory, but we could bounce stuff off each other.

    Keep your chin up, keep a level head (all those cliches are true), don't do anything you'll regret and be civil.
     
    gooch14, Aug 8, 2014
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  14. Aug 26, 2014 at 8:09 AM
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    Prayers and good thoughts send and wishing only the best for you.
     
    kroving, Aug 26, 2014
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  15. Sep 12, 2014 at 5:21 PM
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    Best of luck and all the strength to you
     
    tuna, Sep 12, 2014
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  16. Sep 12, 2014 at 5:22 PM
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    Good luck man! And keep your head up. Tacoma's pull women ;)
     
    Aw9d, Sep 12, 2014
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  17. Sep 12, 2014 at 5:23 PM
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    Guerrilla

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    Oh man, sorry to hear that. Heart break etc, the toughest thing. Hope somehow it turns out for your benefit.
     
    Guerrilla, Sep 12, 2014
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  18. Oct 8, 2014 at 9:51 PM
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    TRDMEDIC

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    Sorry to hear man. I was in your shoes 6 months ago. Either way I hope everything works out for ya.
     
    TRDMEDIC, Oct 8, 2014
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  19. Oct 27, 2014 at 10:45 AM
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    Flowin

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    Went through the same recently, I was sad for a little bit but recovered quick. It's all said and done now and there's a lot of positive coming out of it too...that's what I focused on.

    If you need to talk shoot me a PM
     
    Flowin, Oct 27, 2014
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