Yep thats right, pregnant. Crap situation, we dated a few months and she decided she was to busy to date 5 weeks ago, between getting over her ex, school and stuff she said time wasn't right. Well hadn't talked to her in 5 weeks and yesterday hit me up saying we need to chat. Turns out she is pregnant and had an abortion scheduled for today. Well we chatted for a long time and she came to the conclusion she doesn't want to raise another child without a dad involved in her life (she currently has a 6 yo daughter). Well talked to her to postpone abortion for 2 weeks so we can chat and meet with pastor of my church. She was very torn up by everything and that is why she eventually contacted me. She said yesterday she wishes she would of contacted me sooner to help with decisions of the situation. Currently we are looking at everything this next week or two and the idea of us being together instead of other options. I am not opposed to a long term option (marriage if she thinks she is ready, but I don't want to be that couple with a crap marriage that gets together just because of a kid) She is 31 and I am 27. She seems to have most of her ducks in a row these days.
I ask for prayers for this situation.
If you have any questions or advice please feel free to suggest.
Thank you to everyone here!