DJM kit ? on my 01 taco

I have an 01 Tacoma standard cab and am looking to lower it using the DJM kit. Just wondering which one will level it out, the 3"/3" or the 3"/4"? Also wondering if I should go with their shocks or if there is a better shock I should be looking that is compatible with the kit. Keep in mind, I drive fairly aggressively...duh. Thanks

 

3/4

 

and shocks?

 

or you can get the 3/4 drop kit from beffed and ik he recomends the kyb monomax shocks. and his kit is like $100 cheaper