Just bit the bullet on the following:
5100's all around from DSMS.
Bach's, 2" AAL, diff drop and a spacer kit from Toytec.
Big question is am I missing anything? I know next to nothing about suspensions except what I have found on this forum. Some big tires are the next purchase but a lift is first. I am considering some STT 285/70/16's if they will fit my stock 2010 wheels, but like I said I have very little knowledge.
Thanks for your comments! After days of beating my head on what to purchase this is what I finalized on.