Dakars FTW. I love em. 7 leafs. @ 2.5" lift after settling. dual flex range or something like that. for unloaded and loaded. They are bomber. I do have a campershell, but I still think they ride just fine unloaded.maybe a little bouncy. but smooth as can be heavily loaded.
I was pretty pissed as well about how worthless the stock leafs were loaded for work around the house or going to the river.
(for example...back in 2010...no suspension...loaded for Colorado...2 girls,momma with a bun in the oven, the dog , and pretty much everything including the kitchen sink and two boats.)
shit. stock leafs you bottom out with a plump girl, 2 small dogs and a 12er in the bed, much less a yard of gravel or camping gear.... (not that I have any of those things...but you get the picture...)
yard o gravel....still stock...

Of all the things to spend 4 bills on, imo, this will be one of the top benefits to actual truck usage. The Aussies (OME/ARB) build their shit for hard wheeling loaded for the outback,(i.e car camping to us) not just for not so flexy cool liftedness. one could just get a leveling kit for that....
But realistically.... for super budget, and less weight requirements you can just do an add-a-leaf. I think
Toytec.com has em, and
Wheelers offroad. (see the TW vendor list) WO are real nice folks. I chose to order from them cause they have great customer service. Toytec seemed a little crabby, although they offer a 7 or 10% TW discount if you know to ask. wheeler's was still almost the same price though with no discount...? (maybe their inventory is not marked UP for discount....

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I also researched a bunch, looked for cheaper options as well before biting the bullet. called Wheeler's with some of my suspension questions, and got solid answers... such as 5100's are just as good of a shock, (or the OME Nitros aren't THAT much better, they just have a tougher shock body for flying rock hits) so therefore the 5100's I already had were more then adequate. and Dakars were the best fit for my needs.
I would recommend calling Wheeler's ... AAL may be more then enough or not quite good enough. (for instance my truck is pretty heavy.) bumpstops are equivalently expensive too if I recall.
Since i already whored out old pictures of my truck, even though no one asked, heres a more recent one, from a thankfully quiet new years eve at work....
luckily i am done for the most part cause i gots no more spare $$ for the truck...
hope this helped a bit. good luck to your wallet, friend. TW is a slippery slope...
...oh yeah, and on that note-

Toytec ultimate lift kit will cover all the bases too.if you want OME and everything at once (i purchased almost the same stuff, half used and all individually.wasn't much cheaper in the end either.)