how do i restet the tccm

hey< i tried to do the Grey wire mod on my 06 4x4 trd tacoma... realizing that not enough research had been put in before the mod, i began any way. i was copying how to do it for and 04 and older mod... so now i have either fried my tccm box. or im hoping that it went into some kind of safety mode, where all i have to do is reset the tccm... is there any one who can teach me how to reset the tccm, and might have the knowledge to bypass the diff so that it can be used in 2h 4h and 4l on 05 and later modles. by the way i have hooked all the wires up to stock configuration and have all tried to reset all the codes on the truck. none have worked yet. when the truck is turned on the 4h and 4 low lights blink constantly. thanks evan.... evanruston@hotmail.com