If 4 of the tires have 40,000 miles on them - have you considered removing the tires and just shipping the rims with tpms sensors - it would be cheaper to ship that way.
I estimate it would cost about $22 or less each rim by UPS ground.
Sell the tires as is (with 40,000 miles on them), or throw them away.
I'll help pay for the tire removal, since I only need the 4 aluminum rims with tpms sensors.
The spare is probably a steel rim with tpms, i'm guessing, but if the tire is like new and never seen the ground it is worth shipping.
Let me know and we'll work out a deal. My main interest is just for the 4 aluminum rims with tpms sensors. However I'll work with you to make the deal as complete as possible for you.
UPS ground or FedEx home delivery ground is most likely the way to go.