Wheel/Tire Recommendations

Yes, I know... another one of these threads. I am very new to Toyota and want to make sure I dont make the wrong decision with bolt pattern, back spacing, offset and tire size.

I am trying to decide between these three wheels. I am looking at an 18x9 as I dont plan on doing much off roading and the setup is mainly visual (however, I would like to have the option of going on a trail). I am not against going with a 17 but just think an 18 would provide a much better look. I will be doing mostly day driving and have the occasional off roading trip when we go camping or wanna just get lost in the mountains for a day.

For right now, I wont be adding a lift but would like to go up to a 3" some day. That being said, I am considering a 265/70/18 which I have read doesnt cause any rubbing or require any trimming on stock suspension (correct???). With tires, I am completely lost. I have looked at:

1. Goodyear Wrangler Silent Armor
2. Hankook Dynapro ATM
3. Cooper Discoverer ATP
4. Falken Rocky Mountain ATS
5. BFG Rugged Terrain T/A

As far as wheels go, I am down to these three. I like the XD but also love the look and price point of the ProComp

ProComp 7031


ProComp 7032


XD Misfits


Thank you in advance for any help, tips, considerations and advice!!