For those interested, I picked up my brand new Blue Ribbon 2014 about 6 weeks ago...first one in Hawaii. Unfortunately for you mainland guys it seems like the xrunner is still d/c after '13. But in Hawaii, due to a greater demand for the x's, Toyota agreed to continue selling '14's to Servco. I suppose if you live on the mainland and you REALLY want one, hit up your local dealer and see if they can get their hands on one for you.
Black and Barcelona continue on for '14. However, Nautical was replaced with Blue Ribbon. Navi and xm are standard, and rearview cam is now in the monitor, not the mirror anymore. According to my sales guy, these are the only changes.
My truck is bone stock. All I did was put a Bakflip fibermax so far. Ordered a set of SSR's last week (which will take forever to get here) and gonna order suspension soon. Other than that I have no major plans.
Hope to learn a lot from you guys. Peace.