women are so damn confusing!

So ive been talking to this girl.... gone out on a few dates... she acts like she likes me...then other times... not so much! GAH! women boggle my mind... its like some backwards, upside down, sideways, inside out mind game... that is straight suck at playing... have any of you guys figured them out yet?


thats all... rant off..

 

Nope, and I been married to mine for seven years. I gave up on trying to figure it out. LOL.

 

jajajaa so many girls doo that heres what i doo
when they start to act like they dont like you
or theire not interested in you give them a taste of theire medicine
act like youre not too interested in them and start talking to other girls to see if shee gets jeaolus if shee doas then shees yours
try it

 

hmm... i might try this..


they boggle my mind..

 

They try to make sure you dont understand them. they get some satisfaction out watching us try to udnerstand and fail miserably

 

i believe it... that sit back and laugh.. while we sit here with puzzled faces

 

it always works you just got to have a little game/play make them feel comfertable with you and alway make them laugh no matter the situation oo and also drive a tacoma hahaha

 

lol. its bc we (women) think too much. even on the first few dates, we're thinking about whether or not we could see ourselves with this person in the future and all that nonsense. and sometimes when a guy is too interested, it makes us back off bc we're still deciding if we like you. i agree with advice given thus far. back off a little and see if she comes around. dont hit her up for a few days and see what happens. if she's interested, she'll get in contact with ya!

 

k... yeh lately we have just been talking casually but thats as far as its gone. haha so i should not contact for a few days... see if she contacts me?

hmm... seems easy enough... till she plays those psycho mind games!


thanks for the input all! i might as well give up trying to understand them... it just confuses me more in the end..

 

yeaa thats wat you shuld do for a FEW days dont let it pass more than 2/3 becouse then she might think youre not into her. say hi and bie and stuff like that
and also start to talk to other girls thats going to get her on track again
and dont talk to her with a frown as if youre mad with her just act real cool and happy and stuff like that

 

i cant really give advice on what a guy should do, but can prob do a good job of giving you the girl's perspective. have you guys hung out mostly with just the two of you or with groups of friends? if you have been on a date, she's prob still just feelin you out. mostly likely does like you, but unsure of if she wants to take the next step. have you made a move yet? cuz if not, maybe she's unsure about how you feel about her.. this all depends on your situation. she could also be seeing other guys, which is why sometimes she puts you off. after a day or two of not hitting her up this week, make plans for a date and go from there.

jus try not to think so much when you guys end up hangin out. see where it goes with no expectations and enjoy her company. good luck

 

thank you. we mainly go out with a group of friends but just a few times have we gone out alone. no i havent made a move yet... i dont want to come off too quick. i know she isnt seeing other guys.. i talk to her other friends and they all say she isnt. thanks for the advice.. it is much appreciated.

 

some good advice here. When girls hang out its no fun for them if your gaga over them. Just act like yourself and treat her like you would anybody. If you ignore her to much shell look elswhere. Just distance yourself for like a day or two then just text her and ask to hang out. If she has a feeling you might be interested and are keeping your options open shell want you tied down only for herself. I always wound up with girl B liking me and i wasnt trying. I was looking at girl A and girl B noticed i was ignoring her and started stalking my ass. Good thing Girl B was hot too lol

 

god i hate stalkers espesialy if theire youre ex
i have this girl thats crazy shees like why cant we bee togeterh
if you still love me
those are the crazy ones

 

My god yeah. My ex has been saying crap for 2 years. She was spreading rumors that her and i were sleeping together but she didnt know i moved to cali making that stupid ass statment sound hysterical. Everyone she knew just laughed at her, then she found out i moved and supposedly cried for days. Crazy biotch.

 

My advice.... If she's the one, then you'll know. If not then follow the simple rule of the 3 F's....Find 'em, Fuck 'em, Forget 'em. Dont play their game unless you plan on following my plan, if they are normal(normal as they come) then they wont play the game. enjoy, have fun and wrap it up!!

 

yeaa i hate stalkers i guess where too good looking for them to handle us hahahha

 

yeaa i understand the 3 fs but that only wok\rks with skanks
the real good looking girls you have to play with it a little and then forget them

 

hahaha
Yeah, my ex was seeing this guy(that was like 8-9 yrs older than her and a total computer nerd. weird) and he broke up with her on halloween. Ever since then shes been texting me trying to get me to hang out with her or go do something with her and her friends. Not gonna do it. Im sooo over that. lol


to the op- I've gotta say, I dont understand em either.Probably never will. Im right there with ya, but I do agree that letting a few days pass without you contacting her is a good idea. If she contacts you, more than to ask a random question or something, then i'd say its game on.

 

haha that SUCKS


there was this one girl in me and my friends trig. class and we never really talked to her but one day my friend asks her a question about the homework (which she had no clue about...big AND dumb) and then starts trying to talk to himall through the calss...when we left and started heading home (we car pooled and i was riding with him that day) after a few turns i notice she is behind us but i think nothing of it...we get on the freeway and she pulls up almost next to us then gets behind us and stays there until we get off which was about 15 miles down the freeway...thats when i tell josh and hes like oh F*CK no!! so we start taking all these back road and shes still there so finally i tell him to gun it and we take off and take a bunch of turns and she was no longer there...
needless to say it was some freaky sh*t and we didn't see her in clase again but i saw her once in the parking lot the next semester and i quickly walked the other way