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That's why I am medicated.

 

You are worn out from watching 2 threads...what a doofus

 

I don't think there is enough wierd shit out there I could take to straighten me out...

 

Evening all
Well I was thinking that maybe you guys could tell me how you deal with loss, I just lost my only sister this morning, she was only 52, so so young, anyway take care, be safe and God bless.

 

Exactly.....

 

Oh man nooooooo... just so sorry

 

Talk about it. its going to be overwhelming. Take little steps.

 

Thanks Mike
It's something that we all have to deal with at some time unfortunately, just a little hard to believe at the moment, she was found in her bed so the wife and I are waiting on the coroners results and go from there, thanks again

 

So sorry Bruce, if you want to talk we are here.

 

There are no words that can describe it, and it is such an individual thing. My heart goes out to you I have 3 sisters all younger than I and it would crush me if any of them went before me. They say time heals all wounds I say BS, not all wounds or events. But you do need to give it time, you can't rush it, it has to be on your terms and only you know what those terms are. Time can only soften the blow. Sorry I realize it is not much help for you. I know there are a lot of emotions flowing right now and they will continue for awhile. A long while, remember and embrace the memories. You be safe, and please take care of yourself in this time of trouble. Really wish I could help more but your family and faith can help more than anything else in my experience.

 

Bruce so sorry to hear about this

 

Thank you all so soooo much! You guys have big hearts and it's reassuring to know that there are people who Really do care about others and are there to lean on if one needs, you guys definitely brightened my day.

 

Hey Chris, are you part of a union? Even if not what might help you get the higher ups off your back would be to start a log book and keep records. I've used this in the past with troublesome situations with varying results but it's worth a shot. Heck you could end up running the shop. Lol

 

Brew. I apologize for the late reply. I just read about your loss. I am deeply sorry. We are all here for you

 

I can deffinately understand that I seem to get anxious about everything the dr wants me to take anxiety meds but I didn't
want to as long as I could get by without it

 

we have a union but it's a joke. it has very little pull, and me transferring to another unit is pretty much out because of the good 'ol boy system keeps all that in check

 

good morning everyone and HAPPY FRIDAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

I apologize I just saw this and I am extremely sorry to hear it. I am a fairly emotional person and have a hard time dealing with this also. as time goes by and you go on it's good to be sad and let it out but along with the sad try to laugh a little at some of the fun and fond memories you have of growing up together. be sad for your loss and happy for the time you had

 

sorry I thought you knew I'm just a thread whore

 

thanks andy, It's a lot of back and forth for my pea brain