The Lair

I saw your cool birthday cake! Did she make that?

 

Haha nahh she got it printed in a cake shop, but it was her idea tho!

 

Wait a minute. YOU GOT MARRIED!?! I am sure you mentioned she was your g/f. Next bomb will be a baby kamikaze

 

If I can't get them working I'll do that!

 

We want to see the cake!

 

hes not married, but once u been dating someone for a long ass time and know u wont be with any one else, its easier to call her ur wife at that point cuz gf just seems like an under rated name for someone who is that special

 

That sounded cute. And right around Valentines Day also.

 

Not married haha but @Bocsy44 told me it was ok to say my wife when it is more serious than just a gf

Nighty night all yall!

 

That cake is amazing!

 

Mornin!
What happenend yesterday? Normally the lair is super busy between 10 and 11 lol

 

I was going to say the same exact thing!!

I was fast asleep!

 

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Nothing. You left is with the oicture of your cake and that was the end of it.

Good Morning BTW

 

So is that ok I call her my wife? Or my Woman? Or my Gf?

At least I said good night

I hope everyone is expecting a good day!

 

@Bocsy44 Married them if I read this correctly.

 

In Texas after living with your girlfriend for more than a 6 month the state considers you to be “common law” married. Basically married without the marriage certificate. Your good and @Bocsy44 ias right on the money

*Edit
If you have lived as husband/wife, agreed to be “married” and have told others he/she is your wife/husband then common law marriage applies.

 

Same here, after a year with the same address, without being only room-mate, but didn't knew the right term lol, but still, she's my wife without that gold band lol don't worry guys, you'll all be invited in a facetime/skype wedding if it ever happen

 

How would we get a piece of the Tacoma wedding cake while facetiming? Asking for a friend who likes cake

 

I'll eat two pieces for you

 

NC got rid of their common law marriage like 15 or so years ago (man it doesn't feel that long ago). I think this day and age the younger generation like to "date" for extended times prior to actually marrying. Also you have the thing where marriage is truly a religious endeavor just taken over by the gov't (not getting political or religious, just facts). Like my brother and sister both didn't get engaged until they had been dating their wife and husband for like 6 yrs or so. I am more old school date if you think it'll be make the plunge don't really believe in the perpetual gf/dating whatever state. I think there are a lot of societal changes that have caused this more than anything.

But to each their own and if they are happy more power to them it beats being in a shitty marriage and just staying married because it's easier.