New England B.S. Thread

We have had stretches, and honestly the stress levels do rise, and we don't get along as well. But after 20 years of marriage it won't be all roses.

You need to do what's right for you, then what's right for your family. My suggestion is you need to find time for your relationship, and that means the got to grandparents, tough shit if they don't like it and that goes for the kids as well.

 

What’s a car payment? Haha

 

Seriously no car payments even with the new type-r? That's baller.

 

No I do have a payment on that bad boy. Everything else is paid for though

 

My girl is one of those text book cases of "Where do you want to eat?" She was craving shrimp tonight. She always asks me where I want to eat. She always gets mad when I say "Anywhere. I'll find something on the menu at any place." So she chooses a place. Changes her mind. Five minutes into the drive, she's already on the 5th or 6th place she wants to go to. We ended up at Lock.50. Oh, and they didn't even have shrimp!

 

No kids = no car payment

 

Then you have some coin to spare knowing you'll never have to shave/wax there again

 

What does Nuno say...womens

 

Team paid off

 

Hey one of our two vehicles are paid off, does that count for at least something?

 

LOL! Almost... It's the FIL, and it's "womans!"

 

Sure!

Considering Rebecca, you, and I still pay on one vehicle lol

 

I'm learning, but as usual when it comes to females, I'm wrong again.

 

Less baller

 

Considering the 4 other toys though...

 

I was in the same place at your age.
And I am where I am now.
Alcohol on both sides helped f things up.

 

I don’t mean to sound blunt but maybe you just need to up the foreplay game.
Maybe with kids and stress most times shes tired af and needs you to start kissing her everywhere to get her in the mood?
Try the sneak attack method when you jump at her from around a corner and knock her out. Oh shit wrong forum
Try the sneak attack where you follow her up to the bed room as soon as she heds up. Grab her from the waist kiss her shoulders/back of neck be persistent it might take a few mins then dirt the making of sex go down on that bush for an hour if it takes it.

Could just need a hard reset

 

lol I know. I am jealous and also a self-certified "not-baller"

 

Nuno if all my advice fails I suggest you get a hot babysitter and bang her... thats my favorite type of porn

 

It'll be 25 years of wedding bliss this year for us. As the other older guys have mentioned, it takes work. Heck, there's been times when even I've said "oh no, not that again!"