marriage B.S

No i dont delete anything. She gets on my facebook more than i do

 

My wife and I started a facebook account together and we closed our myspace accounts. Less problems now, but she has logged on to this account to see what I was up to.

 

Let her look at your stuff while you are there, and also ask to look through her accounts - if barriers are up things get sticky

Time for some hot and heavy in the sack to cool things down.

 

She definitely has some issues. I have never been in a relationship where someone is always looking over my shoulder. Nor have I ever done that to anyone else. First time someone does that to me, it would be bye bye.

 

Just shooting from the hip since I know nothing of your situation. Have you both been drifting apart? Are you spending more time online than you used to? Perhaps she feels insecure because you're not spending as much time with her, or you're detached even when you're around, so she thinks something's up? I'm not saying her behavior is justified, but try examining yourself to see if you're treating her differently, less attentively.

If you don't already do it, set up a regular date night. Not with everyone but sometimes marriage changes the dynamic and she may miss the way you treated her before you got married. They still like being pursued.

As for the facebook women, I'd just delete them or ignore them if it's going to cause a problem (especially past hookups). Facebook friends aren't worth your marriage.

 

You know, the real question would be... if she's like this now, did you ever cheat on her? Or give her reason to think so in the past?

Yeah, guys shouldn't blame the guy, it's always the woman... or not. Either that or she's got serious trust issues (which you should've fixed before marrying her, now it gets expensive)... or she's cheating on you... again.. see prior comment about expensive.

 

We hang out together quite a bit, i mean its just us...and a dog.

so our typical day is to come home , we get home about the same time. Let the dog out, go for a walk, eat some supper....then later in the night, she usually has certain shows that she likes to watch, so she goes upstairs while i stay down in the den.

We try to go out on weekends, at least every other weekend for a nice meal.

Idk......

 

There was some stupid shit that got stirred up between a couple of her "friends" about me back in highschool....5-6 years ago.

But she found out the truth, that the "friends" were lying.....

so that issue got solved, other than that, theres been nothing.

 

Hey listen to Greg, hes got good advice. I was with my ex for almost 7 years and she did stuff like that every once in a while but not a lot. I "never" gave her any reason that I might have been cheating but I thinks she just had some self-esteem and trust issues. But now I'm single so I dont have to worry about that crap anymore!!

 

But you do have to worry about STDs (if you want to get any nookie...) and meeting crazier chicks than the one you shook....

LOL.

 

Hahaha, no I'm not out there whoring around. But I will say that I did "hook-up" with a couple of chicks and they were pretty hot too!!

 

Yeah.....do that.

That being said, my wife of almost 7 years is the same way. Yes, it is very f-ing irritating. I've got nothing to hide from my wife. Sometimes I can shrug/laugh it off, but other times I get pretty pissed. We've discussed this between each other many times and she admits that she has a problem, however, admitting a problem and fixing one are two different things. Although she still noses around sometimes, it is less than it used to be. Talk to your wife. It might not turn everything into rainbows, puppies, and gumdrops, but it will get the ball rolling on a better relationship.

Hope you two are able to work this out.

 

Coincidentally, my wife just texted me "stop cheating on me and come to bed".

She doesn't like it when I get too wrapped up in my "car porn".

 

She texted you ? Holy Shit , how big is your house ?

 

It's midnight here. Got a 4 and 6 year old sleeping. She's in the bedroom, I'm in the den (opposite corners of our house). Besides, I always get mad at my wife and kids for yelling across the house for me. I don't mind a text.

 

LOL , fair nuff

 

I totally agree with hih.

 

Answer: Pandora.com = no more need for myspace music (unless your looking for a specific song) which then you choose option number 2. Youtube.


anyway Hang in there man and don't give up. I agree with others and talk to her calmly and when either is not mad.

 

Tell you one thing, adding an ex gf/fling/piece of ass as a friend on FB, that was just a bad idea. Hell I've gotten 6 friend requests from my ex-fiance, bitch don't get the point apparently. Girls who are friends are bad enough, I don't know why but there is a double standard with most women. They can have all the male friends they want.. you get a single female friend (especially if she has even some of the same interests and most especially if she looks even half-way decent) and you are royally fucked.

Anyway.. you can try talking, even professional counselling.. .more than likely you're either going to just give up and put up with it until you die or divorce and give up 1/2 your paycheck and probably your truck. (Or you could kill her, dispose of the body properly and continue to Wife #2)

 

My wife is welcomed to go thru my phone if she so wishes.
She can go thru my email, bills or whatever else.
Personally I don't care not do I care who or what is on her phone or computer.
Cheat, Christ, as much as I live my wife the last thing I want is another woman telling me what I need to do, how to change, or telling me I dont need something.
Confront her and ask her if there is anything she inparticular she is looking for.