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Would you take back your ex after cheating?

Discussion in 'Off-Topic Discussion' started by bootywarrior, Aug 26, 2010.

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Would you take back your ex after she/she cheated?

Poll closed Sep 25, 2010.
  1. Yes

    24 vote(s)
    7.6%
  2. No

    292 vote(s)
    92.4%
  1. Aug 26, 2010 at 7:31 PM
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    bootywarrior

    bootywarrior [OP] Well-Known Member

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    Kinda. But just whipped on that, not actually her. haha I just miss the fun
     
  2. Aug 26, 2010 at 7:31 PM
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    V-TRAIN

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    x2, plus you got a get out of jail free card. :headbang:
     
  3. Aug 26, 2010 at 8:44 PM
    #43
    Tacoma206

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    This is a really hard question to answer. I voted yes to take her back because I think it is possible, but of course that honestly depends. If I had kids, it makes a difference for them. I have friends whose lives are f***ed up because of a nasty divorce and split lives. So on that side, it seems like trying to make it work would be worth it. Of course it wouldn't be easy, but it could work.

    On the other hand, it would be so difficult I don't know if I could do it. One of my best friends hooked up with this girl I had been seeing for a while. I lost 2 friends that day, and I don't regret not talking to her at all or attempting to get back together.

    I guess my post is more of a serious response compared to the sex ones, but if sex is what you want most then you should do that...
     
  4. Aug 26, 2010 at 8:50 PM
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    JimBeam

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    this

    i dont care if theres kids involved or not

    i have a zero tolerance policy for that shit
     
  5. Aug 26, 2010 at 9:03 PM
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    84Hilux

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    Don't do it!!

    I made this mistake and spent the next 2 years as suspicious wreck before she did it twice more to end it quick.

    The urge to stay together is prevalent because the ego just took a major kick in the nards. But if you look at it logically- there is no bigger betrayal possible. Holding on to the person who crushed your ego in order to soothe your ego is just nuts!! Guaranteed failure!!!
     
  6. Aug 26, 2010 at 9:16 PM
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    TACO626

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    ....and this is why she cheated on you... you didn't give her enough cokc
     
  7. Aug 26, 2010 at 9:23 PM
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    oofy15354

    oofy15354 Proud Tundra *****

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    remind me never to buy YOUR truck....

    anyways:
    call me old fashioned but i look for love out of a relationship. if she ever cheats, obviously she doesnt care about the relationship as much as i do.

    ill admit sex is kinda awesome but its no basis for a relationship. you'll find another girl that actually loves you like you do to her. maybe shes not as good but shes tight, warm and wet. still gets the job done :)
     
  8. Aug 26, 2010 at 9:38 PM
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    once a girl turns into a slut it hard for them to turn back to a housewife
     
  9. Aug 26, 2010 at 9:40 PM
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    Hahahaha!

    Ok but on the serious tip:


    Loyalty is numero uno
     
  10. Aug 26, 2010 at 9:44 PM
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    "Cant turn a ho into a housewife
    Hos dont act right
    Theres hos on a mission, an hoes on a crackpipe
    Hey ho how ya doin, where ya been?
    Prolly doin ho stuff cuz there you ho again
    Its a ho wide world, that we livin in
    feline, feminine, fantastical, women
    Not all, just some
    You ho who you are
    Theres hoes in tha room, theres hoes in tha car
    theres hoes on stage, theres hoes by tha bar
    hos by near, an hos by far
    Ho! (But can i getta ride?!)
    NO! (Cmon, ***** why?!)
    Cuz youza"


    -Ludacris
     
  11. Aug 26, 2010 at 9:50 PM
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    scottri

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    I checked no because there was no "FUCK NO" option. I think it works both ways, I wouldn't expect her to take me back either.
     
  12. Aug 26, 2010 at 9:51 PM
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    Yeah I say hell no once she cheats once its just going to be easier for her to cheat again. If your capable of cheating your capable of cheating ALOT. SO HELL NO TO THE HOE!
     
  13. Aug 26, 2010 at 10:04 PM
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    tacosuprem

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    I dont know if i can say this(sorry if i cant) Dude Pussy is pussy. And a cheat is a cheat. They wont change! The relationship will NEVER be the same EVER! She already has a back up plan if you dont get back together. Also how do you know this was the first guy she cheated on you with. Ditch the nasty whore for what she is.
     
  14. Aug 27, 2010 at 3:46 AM
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    I went down this road about 6 years ago. Once they cheat, things will never be the same no matter how hard you try. I forgave my wife for what she did and she thanked me my doing it again 2 years later. Once a cheat always a cheat! If you don't have kids with the girl, just move on!
     
  15. Aug 27, 2010 at 4:11 AM
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    ^^ That's fucked up man. For the OP.......here's the rub, I know how you miss the ass whenever you wanted it, but that's really all it was man. There's nothing more to it, cheating is never an accident, and it wasn't the first time she did it. Have more respect for yourself and don't even consider it.
     
  16. Aug 27, 2010 at 4:50 AM
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    badguybuster

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    Once a cheater....always a cheater.
     
  17. Aug 27, 2010 at 5:12 AM
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    Punt her to the curb. Too many women out there and with a little patience, you will find the right woman for you...

    I am making the assumption that it was your girlfriend ?
     
  18. Aug 27, 2010 at 5:18 AM
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    rjclemen

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    No damn way
     
  19. Aug 27, 2010 at 5:32 AM
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    redrx8

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    It's never the same, the trust is gone and the hurt is always there. My wife cheated on me with a good friend when we were going out, I never found out until I was married to her and have 2 kids. Let's just say it's not easy for me and the relationship is not the same anymore. So you have to really think about it if you take her back, plus she might give you a disease that will stay with you the rest of your life. I would not go back to her, find someone you can trust.
     
  20. Aug 27, 2010 at 5:39 AM
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    There is no fucking way I would ever have anything else to do with the host organism of my offspring in any way whatsoever...not physically, not mentally, not not not!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I would gladly, without any hesitation, go without for the rest of my life if she was the last female on earth!!!!!!!!!!
     

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