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Ugg, broke off engagement after 2 year relationship (engaged 8mos.)

Discussion in 'Off-Topic Discussion' started by dal3_gribble, Feb 18, 2020.

  1. Feb 18, 2020 at 5:33 PM
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    NYCTaco52

    NYCTaco52 Half man, half goat

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    Whoa whoa whoa, let's not get carried away
     
  2. Feb 18, 2020 at 5:34 PM
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    dal3_gribble

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    Wow, I think that would be great for perspective and very appreciated. I'll reach out.
     
  3. Feb 18, 2020 at 5:36 PM
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    Steves104x4

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  4. Feb 18, 2020 at 5:37 PM
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    Where's Boyd at when we need him for some kind, loving words concerning relationships?
     
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  5. Feb 18, 2020 at 5:41 PM
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    How old is OP?
     
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  6. Feb 18, 2020 at 5:42 PM
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    What size tires are those? How much lift?

    Oh and uh...evolved male? That's ridiculous. You can't change your nature, and she can't change hers. Forming a friendship with her ex was no bueno. 9 time out of 10, she wanted you to fight for her.

    Keep your chin up. It'll be alright.

    Finally, pictures of said ex for better advice..:)
     
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  7. Feb 18, 2020 at 5:44 PM
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    Been married 27 years, we fought on our first date, fought here and there all 27 years, oh and the 5 years of dating :)
    But we also have a lot of good times, they do outweigh the bad, and raised two awesome boys! I found that in a relationship you
    have to have similar interests, or both of you are willing to try what the other likes, and totally must laugh together, not you're laughing
    and she's like "what's wrong with you, you find that funny"
    If you don't feel it, move on, high maintenance is tough if you're not!! I'm not, wife's not really :) haha....
    You gotta find that someone that wants you, loves the stupid things you do, just loves to be with you, and she is out there, hang in, enjoy being single :)
     
  8. Feb 18, 2020 at 5:45 PM
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    NYCTaco52

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    VERY important question right there. If she drives a BMW, be out
     
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  9. Feb 18, 2020 at 5:48 PM
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  10. Feb 18, 2020 at 5:48 PM
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    OP = 42 ; Ex = 37
     
  11. Feb 18, 2020 at 5:49 PM
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    Your emotions will be a rollercoaster fir awhile and that’s a good thing. Just learn from your experience and let it go and enjoy the single life. Oh and tell her ex husband thanks, she’s all yours again.
     
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  12. Feb 18, 2020 at 5:50 PM
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    :puke:
     
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    Her ex became an abusive alcoholic when they were married. Interestingly he's in a seemingly healthy relationship now... I have always wanted to talk to him, I think our stories would align TBH.
     
  14. Feb 18, 2020 at 5:53 PM
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    Either she was the issue or he found Jesus. Sounds like fate may of done you a favor.
    But in all seriousness, it’s better this happened before marriage than post marriage. Find new hobbies, meet new people, you’ll end up better than you are now. Some people it takes longer, if you are in a state with legal cannabis... you are already ahead of the ball game.
     
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    probably better you left then
     
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    Nail her friend and call out ex’s name when you blast.
     
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  18. Feb 18, 2020 at 5:57 PM
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    I don't know about anyone else. but I don't think I would be ok with my lady being friends with the Ex,, that sounds like she was never fully committed. Maybe its good in the long run. take your time, work on you, and it should be better next go around. good luck.
     
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    that distraction will keep you from naturally moving forward. but that's obvious i guess.
     

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