Ugg, broke off engagement after 2 year relationship (engaged 8mos.)

My last girlfriend insisted on keeping in contact with her ex-boyfriend, and while that isn't the reason I broke it off, it didn't sit well with me...

 

Um, sounds like one common denominator...
Do not, I repeat, do not get back with her. Take it from someone who made that mistake, now I have to do it again

Being alone is not the same as being lonely!

 

my first real girlfriend from 1990 still tries to message me on FB to this day, and I'm still ignoring her... since 1991.

one failed relationship after another, constant cheating, and never any commitments in her life and she's now in her 50's, never married, never kids. that is fine, but it is also revealing.

 

There's resolve here, there's no on-again/off-again. This was a once and out.

 

yes. very. and not worth it.

 

You should just block her! And like @Itchyfeet said...

Is she hot?

 

Does she have a job or a vehicle? My last girlfriend didn't have a job or a driver's license!

 

wouldn't know. i don't follow her or anything, kinda my point.

truth though is that i still feel a bit ill when ignoring someone. it's just that i happen to know she's not being genuine and is looking for another cheat distraction.

 

Nothing like hot and crazy as a fucking loon.

 

Broken grille?

 

She sounds like a dancer.

 

ya that was my 20's. fo sho

 

You mean that she looks at you as a piece of meat?

 

seems so. it was more explicitly stated in the past. i never took the bait. now she's just kinda half trying or whatever.

 

Tough problem to have.

 

Definitely not a dancer!

 

not a problem. not invested in any of that.

 

Hair dresser? Named Tiffany?

 

It took me about six months to get rid of my ex; Making things awkward is that she practically lives in my neighborhood!