Age for marriage?

So are you guys still working while going to school?

 

.....WAT?

 

all i took in from this was that you dont' WANT to hit your wife.....does it just slip sometimes lol

 

LOL I dont hit my wife. I was kidding. Ive seen enough of the shit in my lifetime to realize 1. It gets no where 2. Its just plain cowardly and bitchy for a guy to do it.

 

haha I figured you were kidding...no real man would hit a woman...

 

I thought so too...and I agree with the above statement.

 

WOw. Ive joked around about alot of stupid shit, I wonder what else people think Im serious about. LOL.

 

Thats the answer!

If you wait to long she may think it will never happen, and get tired of waiting... That don't mean go buy a ring today, but think about it for a while.

 

Yes sir I believe this is the path im going to take. Sounds like a good idea to me.

 

my wife and I married when I was 21, this Saturday will be our 11 year anniversary. My best friend waited until he was 30 and his may end after only a couple of years. For me it worked out very well, for him not so much. It is kind of a leap of faith, I do not regret my decision. Good luck to you, and post more of her.

 

I just got married September 18th. My wife and I are both 25. We were engaged for about a year and a half.

 

Yeah, how long it lasts is all up to you and her, are you really willing to stick together through thick and thin. You have got to know what you want, and then from there you just go for it (hope she "knows" the same).

 

That would be a red flag. If you agree with this then you're setting yourself up for failure.

Stop



HAMMER TIME....ok jk.


Seriously, break down the facts here and what it means. In a perfect situation you'd ask her when YOU'RE READY. Doing it because you're scared she'll leave you is SERIOUSLY fucked up; no other way to describe it.

Sit down, and have the talk.

I told mine that there wasn't a chance in hell we'd get married before we finished college and got stable jobs. But I didn't stop there, and you shouldn't either. Tell her WHY you think that. My reasoning was that when I got done with college I might want to go back for an MBA or maybe college would take me longer than expected (change of major). I also made it quite clear that I wasn't going to be married and living off my parents. That's just wrong in so many ways.

Then she'll know what the time line is and everything should be fine. It's like waiting for something to download; if you have a progress bar you know if you can go make a sandwich. No progress bar and you'll be glued to the screen thinking it could finish at any moment. Which situation do you think will piss you off the most?

 

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You learned fast!

You just give her the falcon punch then dont you?




ok I am done thread jacking. Good luck OP with whatever you decide!

 

Yes that is true. Forgot to add the part about that lol. I worded that pretty bad. If she would be willing to leave you for waiting, it probably wouldn't work anyways.

 

Man, that falcon punch combined with your Zach G. avatar makes me laugh!

 

age aint the issue.....i would just wait on kids....my bro got married at 18 and they waited a year or two to have kids so they had there time to be together alone...now they got 2 kids and are happier than ever. they are 25 now

 

Took the first step today...well i guess two first steps...today after work i stopped by a couple jewerly shops to look at rings, just to see whats out their and whats my price range. Then i went over to her parents house today and talked to her dad about it...We're pretty close, but talking about this kind of stuff made me nervous as hell. But he was down for it, and gave me a hug

 

bromance its awesome that you're gonna get married