Norcal Spotted and BS Thread

Hopefully the smoke is cleared up there by the time y’all go up. Last weekend it was terrible all through that area.

 

Haven't been on in a few days, sorry to hear that bro. I know the feeling! I've been working with a pretty good mediator/paralegal up here in Placerville helping me with the all paperwork if you're interested. Definitely around if you want to grab a beer anytime!

Also shoutout @jberry813 for the new shovel & mounts. Hope you enjoy(ed) your bourbon! Nice pad you've got there, you're gonna have to keep us in the loop on how your badass kitchen turns out! Looking forward to camping in August!

 

Thanks bro. Always down for a cold one! My mom has a good lawyer. All this shit is new to me

 

Sucks. I got away with paperwork and a paralegal.

 

UPCOMING MOD DAY: SATURDAY 7/24/21

This will be the 8th "Official" "Mod Day" for us in the 209, at my place... Probably 14th or 15th for us 209ers if you count unofficial Mod Days etc, and work that's been done at @foxrcing07 place.


Where: My place (details will be PMed to those interested)

Start the conversation in the 209 Mod Day thread and lets see what kind of shit we can get in to.​

https://www.tacomaworld.com/threads/209-tacos-mod-day-saturday-7-24-21.560536/page-40#post-25976184

 

Well I'm stupid...and new to this. Whats the difference? Im going to need a very good representative

 

You are definitely NOT in a position where you would do it without a Lawyer. Paperwork and Paralegal is how you do it when there isn't a lot of community property and children involved. And where it's completely sure that overall the divorce is going to be amiable on both sides (aka everyone gets along and can agree on how to divide assets)

 

I've seen one emergency divorce work well, only because he found out both kids weren't his. He just simply cut ties with DNA proof. She was left to fend for herself (both were military).

She ended up re-married in 6 months, he became a true drunken bachelor.

 

I went to an attorney for a one time consult. He laid out all the ins and outs and in my case, our incomes were pretty similar so there wouldn't be anything her way and as long as we agreed, just filing the paperwork would work for us-hence the paralegal-you at least want a paralegal to do the paperwork. When you have kids and or when there is property or cash that you cannot agree on, get a lawyer. You have kid(s). I would definitely seek an attorney who is experienced in divorce.

I have other advice. For the material things-unless it was yours before and you want it, let it go. It's easier than arguing. Besides, you can always get new stuff. And the last thing, remember you loved this person at one point and now you don't. So in the interest of being over quickly think carefully about what you want to argue about.

 

I know the feels on ammo, luckily me and my dad reload

 

Picked up my matching full size spare this morning from americas tire finally. Then swung by harbor freight for a jack that actually works with the truck. Got the track mounts in but need a shorter strap or something to keep it in place better

 

100% correct ^^^

I've been there @Fernando. At the time, it seemed like the worst thing in the world. I have since found out is pretty much the best thing that could have happened to me. Because it's the reason I found Jen.

Looking back, the ONLY thing that was worth fighting over was my boys. And I did.

 

Current bed situation. This spare needs a different place though. Anybody have a spare tire tool for a 1st gen laying around? Lol
Don't mind the shitty paint job on the campershell, its on the list to finish

 

Im pretty sure all we have is debt. Lol. Im over it and she can take what she wants except my house. I'll cash her out

I owned my home before her...but cali...yay... Lol. Anyways i guess its best to lawyer up and start looking forward to the next chapter in life....and alot more camping and wheeling!


If she dont take my truck

All i want is my son. But i agree matt, i know happiness is on the other end

 

Alright..Alright..lighten up! Its Friday!!

 

Hey @Fernando I'm in the market for a good used truck. I can offer $3.75... :wink

 

I will give you $4.00…

 

Spotted in Castro Valley. Looks like a couple of buddies headed out for the weekend, but a quick pit stop for boba…



Have fun!

 

You guys stop bidding the price up on Nando's truck. It's community property and he'll have to give up half!


I'll give you $.02 @Fernando. Make the settlement an easy payout... I got you bro!

 

Another @Fernando vehicle on jack stands?