PennSilverTaco's "Perfect 5-Lug Regular Cab" Build, Aspergers, and General BS MegaThread!

State Street in Doylestown...

 

At the Wawa in Doylestown...

 

Even with four lights sets bricked by the extreme cold, my truck still looks pretty damn good!

 

Merry Christmas!

 

Merry Christmas!

 

So for the second time since 2020 my parents have found some stuff in the basement that I bought for myself years ago and for I had, thought they bought it for me, and gifted it to; I laughed it off but gave my parents a form ultimatum not to gift me anything car-related from the basement. I bought these puzzles on Amazon in 2018 and never opened them, and in 2020 or 2021 my dad found a couple of unopened model cars (the kind you paint and put together) in the basement and gave them to me...

 

Yours truly at Christmas, circa 1992-1993...

 

He read it but he didn't respond; I'll call again tomorrow. Trying to get these people on the phone is literally like trying to heard cats...

 

So you mean my kinda job

 

https://carsandbids.com/auctions/9XpkPQDN/2004-toyota-sienna-xle-limited-awd

What would possess someone to do that??

 

I've seen lifted AWD Previas before, a lifted 3rd Gen Sienna, and even a lifted Mazda Miata. Nothing shocks me anymore.

 

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So, I told everybody about the guy who was introduced to my friend by her friend, who she dated for less than a month before realizing he was a control freak who treats women like property. He called me a pussy bitch after I refused to bring my truck (with the Christmas lights on it) to a friend's house, because he was insisted on paying for an Uber to take his ex (who at the time was still friends with him) home. @ABA180 stated, after reading my initial post about this asshole, that this guy was going to mouth off to the wrong person and literally get his teeth knocked out; I felt exactly this way when I said that to him...

He has lost approximately eighteen friends (including a couple girlfriends, my friend who used to date him, and me) since about 2017, and he seems to think that is okay to go "West Virginia" on people to intimidate them into submission. He tried this on me with the unprovoked "pussy bitch" comment, and I responded accordingly.

I am obsessed with cars and HVAC, and his obsession with trains is more than both of my obsessions combined. Within days of meeting him and friending him on Facebook, he started bombarding me with YouTube videos of various trains. I am interested in trains, and I even have the special "Preserve Our Heritage" train license plate on my truck, but I am hardly a railfan. Even if I was, I wouldn't be bombarding people I'd just met with videos of stuff that they may or may not be interested in. When he eased up on the train videos, he started sending videos of other random shit, like an antique mantle clock he'd spend two grand restoring. Even more annoying is that he not only sent all of these videos to a group chat that I was in with him and other mutual friends, but to me individually as well.

My friend who dated him briefly is very kindhearted and sees the best in everybody, and wanted to give him a chance in the friend-zone; I thought this was a bad idea from day one, and I could actually sense a mental breakdown coming. Unsurprisingly, it came in a spectacular fashion.

 

Just stay away from him.
Block him on social media and your phone.

 

Agreed!

 

On another note...

I have kissed women who I'm 99% sure were not on the autism spectrum, but I've never been with a female who wasn't autistic. After my last experiences, I am not entirely sure I want to enter a romantic relationship with another autistic woman. The two exceptions are my longtime friend Colleen (who is six months younger than me and just turned 33 in September), and my fairly recent friend Anna (who just turned 25); I am great friends with both of them, but while we are close, neither of them are interested in dating me.

I dated this one girl who lives in my neighborhood for a few months, but abruptly ghosted her when she started giving mixed signals. For starters, she told me on our first date that a previous boyfriend had raped her and she never told her parents, and she told me this in the truck not five minutes after we'd left her house. That story changed to "Oh, I've never actually had sex." I asked her "Didn't you say you were raped?" She didn't seem to know what that there was a difference between rape and sexual assault, and the story changed to "a guy forced me to give him a blowjob when I really didn't want to."

I kissed her, numerous times, and I also fooled around with her but stopped short of going all the way because as stated above she started giving mixed signals. She literally sent me a text message one night saying that she wanted my dick inside her, but a short time later she started acting weird and saying I forced her to kiss me. It never came to this, but I have a large SD card in my dashcam, and I had her on video giving me permission to kiss her on our first date (and numerous other times). After consulting with family members and numerous people I trusted, I reluctantly cut off contact with her; I still drive past her parents' house everyday because it's kind of hard not to do so. I've heard that she has since gotten a new boyfriend who also drives, but she herself still doesn't drive, though I wouldn't be surprised if she has gotten a job by now.

She gave off obvious signs of either being on the spectrum or having another intellectual disability, but she was fairly high-functioning. However, when pressed about her disability or whether or not she was on the autism spectrum, she drew a blank. It was a "mind your own business" type of thing, but rather that she legitimately didn't know. She said that she had been in special ed all the way through high school, and that her parents wouldn't let her go to college, but she had no idea what her intellectual disability was and I have a feeling her parents purposely kept it from her.

Even though she was absolutely infatuated with me, she wanted to keep our relationship a secret both on social media and from her parents; I had just turned 29, and she was either 22 or 23, so age was not an issue. I have no idea what the issue was, but I lost patience with her antics within two months and ghosted her. Her mom texted me asking if I was mad at her not long after I ghosted her, but they haven't questioned why I've cut ties with their daughter; I'm still friends with her mom on Facebook and she leaves nice comments on my posts sometimes. I have a feeling they've probably figured out what happened.

One of my problems with autistic women is that the the majority are icredibly reluctant to go beyond first base even after dating for months, and then there are the rare few who incredibly promiscuous to the point of being sluts. I am not going to give any names, but one of my Aspie friends has been dating the same girl for at least seven years and hasn't even kissed her yet.

 

I think you should add her to the “stay away from list”.

 

I haven't talked to her since probably June 2018. For the longest time, I would always roll my window up when I drove past her house and she was outside, and I only recently stopped doing that...

 

Not shocking, it's bound to occur. I only hope it was his and his issue alone versus someone else in his vicinity having his dumbness visited upon them

 

Well, he started acting weird the night when his ex and our other female friend were at that other female friend's house. He then called me a pussy bitch when I told him that I wasn't going to show up because he was being posessive of a girl who only wanted to be his friend (again, I was supposed to drive her home, and he insisted on paying for an Uber with his mom's money to take her home). In actuality, I was more afraid that he would become violent towards me if I showed up. My two female friends both told me that I probably shouldn't show up. My friend who used to date this guy got a ride home from the other girl's dad. She was apparently frantic on the phone to her mom. Her mom mistakenly thought I was with her and frantically messaged me asking me to call her and confirm that her daughter was safe; I called and said that I was not with her, and she ended up getting home safe. The guy apparently attempted to call her from a spoofed number at 5:30am, but he is blocked and she hasn't heard from him since.

Unfortunately, our other friend has been friends with this guy since they were like 3 years old and refuses to sever ties with him. Luckily, her mom is aware of the situation and is keeping an eye on him.