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Honestly, I just need someone on my side right now.

Discussion in 'Personal & Emotional Support' started by LilRedYota, Jul 28, 2011.

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  1. Jul 28, 2011 at 8:46 PM
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    LilRedYota

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    So lately my boyfriend cheated on me with some girl he met at his work. we had been dating for a year and were "in love".

    Im angry. extremely angry. i dont want to be like that.
    BUt then today his new girlfriend (the girl he cheated on me with) was texting me from his phone saying all these terrible things.

    This shit just hurts. you dont do that. you arent supposed to be that way. you dont hurt someone you love, you dont do things like that. like seriously people have become ridiculous.

    I feel like i cant do this. I physically hurt. it sounds like a sob story but i seriously need someone to tell me im right on this.
     
    LilRedYota, Jul 28, 2011
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  2. Jul 28, 2011 at 8:48 PM
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    id smackaho
     
    Maverick904, Jul 28, 2011
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  3. Jul 28, 2011 at 8:48 PM
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    JimBeam

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    JimBeam BECAUSE INTERNETS!! Moderator

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    you're def not wrong

    kick him to the curb and move on

    you'll be better off for it in the long run
     
    JimBeam, Jul 28, 2011
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  4. Jul 28, 2011 at 8:50 PM
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    cc350

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    Just text her back and tell her the day will come that he'll do the same with her!
     
    cc350, Jul 28, 2011
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  5. Jul 28, 2011 at 8:50 PM
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    I feel ya, i just got back from my ex's house a few hours ago. I went over there in hopes of making up..and as we're laying down shes telling me about all the guys shes been screwed over by in the past month we've been broken up. we went out for 9 months and she's been with 3 guys since. Needless to say i got up and left. It sucks but you'll learn theirs a million and a half better people than that. Sorry to hear about it!
     
    xwillx93, Jul 28, 2011
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  6. Jul 28, 2011 at 8:50 PM
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    Sje1124

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    You deffinately deserve better than that, keep your head up
     
    Sje1124, Jul 28, 2011
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  7. Jul 28, 2011 at 8:50 PM
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    LilRedYota

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    i broke up with him. same thing happened to my mom, the whole cheating thing, and she told me well i suppose. it just hurts....it hurts alot.
    thank yall really, ive needed some more support.
     
    LilRedYota, Jul 28, 2011
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  8. Jul 28, 2011 at 8:50 PM
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    X2 what that girl is doing isnt right
     
    HondaGM, Jul 28, 2011
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  9. Jul 28, 2011 at 8:51 PM
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    LilRedYota

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    taught me*
     
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  10. Jul 28, 2011 at 8:52 PM
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    does an ass need kicking?
     
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  11. Jul 28, 2011 at 8:53 PM
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    Sounds like someone needs to spend a few $$ of feel better mods :D
     
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  12. Jul 28, 2011 at 8:53 PM
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    Somethin to keep your head up!
     
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  13. Jul 28, 2011 at 8:54 PM
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    hahaha! as much as i want that to happen i know it would only bring me down to their level.
    I have prayed to God and asked him to give them exactly what he thinks they deserve. we will see what that is....but last time i heard of God's rules cheating isnt something He's cool with. :)
     
    LilRedYota, Jul 28, 2011
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  14. Jul 28, 2011 at 8:55 PM
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  15. Jul 28, 2011 at 8:55 PM
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    hahahahah! if i had it! i just got my 3 inch lift put on!
     
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  16. Jul 28, 2011 at 8:56 PM
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    I gotcha brotha. it takes some balls to walk away, i get where youre at. we just gotta both keep our heads up and know there's definately someone better and we deserve better.
     
    LilRedYota, Jul 28, 2011
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  17. Jul 28, 2011 at 8:57 PM
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    Good for you! There ARE good single men out there who won't cheat. Very few on TW so watch out for the resident stalkers. :D

    Seriously, any man that cheats is a man not worth your time, and I know you did the right thing. I'm sure it still hurts but time heals and I'm positive things will look up.
     
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  19. Jul 28, 2011 at 8:58 PM
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    Sorry all of that had to go down. Everything happens for a reason. It is like a kick in the nuts... except... ovaries for you...:eek: (<<that's the face you usually make when something like this happens) it sucks... big time... gotta gather yourself back up and move on. Karma is a bitch and someone that does that will get theirs in the end.

    Keep you head held high, keep yourself busy, and keep moving forward. I have been cheated on as well and it is never fun. "The one" is out there for you. Just gotta keep searching!
     
    mntbiker2008, Jul 28, 2011
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  20. Jul 28, 2011 at 8:58 PM
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    fuck'em you may have loved him but, now that his true colors have shown through he is just another douche canoe. scrape him off the bottom of your shoe because he sounds like a turd then move on with your life.

    block his phone number so his retarded fuck buddy can't hurt your feelings anymore. don't worry about common friends don't worry about anything cut this guy loose and be done with it once and for all.

    my sisters friend keeps going back to the same kid even though he treats her like shit! the girl is cute and nice and the kid she is so in love with has a face that looks like a can of smushed assholes lol! i never got it but, i'm ready to kick his ass myself just to make her and my sister shut up about him :)

    do you have an older brother? if so tell him about it and he should help you out if they keep screwing around with you. they sound like morons... and you will be better off with out him, just walk it off kid :)
     
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