Valentines Day

valentines day...................whatta waste!!! (just dont tell the wifey i said that)..................i reckon i'll get her a card.......and dinner, then we are going separate ways for movie night. she'll watch some damn chick flick.............and im watching friday the 13th!!

 

We will be out playing in Dumont sand dunes all weekend, he probably will get me the same thing he got me last year..nothing . I bought him Oakley goggles that he wanted, supposed to be a Valentines gift, but he already got them, so now nothing!!

 

awesome!

If I could only convince the wife of that.. hmm....

 

hmm... sounds like a raw deal there FSC....

 

Yeah he is lucky I'm not materialistic...but it didn't make me happy, was our 1st Valentines together too.

 

wowzas... and ya didn't kick him in the nads? Did ya hold back the sexage at all?

 

No I didn't do any of that, I figured it wasn't worth getting upset over. He isn't good with feelings/emotions/gifts etc and I knew that, I know he cares about me, that is enough.
But this year I'll kick him in the nads and withhold sex . Maybe I should give him a little help and hint about getting me something and making up for last year?

 

hopefully that works...

If I didn't get the wifey something, she'd lose her marbles... no sex for me... lol

 

i am in a wedding on the 7th. i got us a hotel room for after the wedding. i will probably have something there for her.
on the 14th, we are going to grill steak and lobster at home.
gift - new door knobs for the house and a card.

 

I was married for almost 5 years, I don't remember ever getting a Valentines gift ..I'm sure I did, but they must not have been anything great .

 

my hint worked, left a catalog open on the desk when I left for work... today he said to pick something I like, cause he doesn't know what I'd like ...I don't want to pick my gift, so I'll show him a few things I like and let him choose one for me.

 

Probably nothing? We aren't much for the "spending" holidays (barring x-mas). We usually forget, and it's just another day. His birthday is about two weeks after anyway, and I wouldn't know what to get him for that either! lol! Since it happens to be a Saturday, we'll probably just do "it" as usual and call it square! LOL!

 

dang i wish my girl would be happy with just that lol maybe someday!

 

Last year I took a picture of a card with my phone and read it to her while at the store. I put the card back and told her I saved $3.75. She was still laughing when I got home.

Valentine's is a waste and she agrees...greatest woman in the world. I do keep some real nice dark chocolate stocked for her year round and she gets flowers and hand written letters an average of once a month.

Both of our Birthdays and our 12th anniversary are all next week so we splurge every year and get something for the family. This year it's a 47" HDTV. Even with the economy in the toilet we had a great year last year so we are spending a little more on ourselves. I get a new table saw and she gets a new sewing machine (which is 3x the cost of the saw so don't think she gets the shaft)

 

17 years of marriage and two pricey kids kinda puts things in perspective! lol!

 

I asked by someone "what are we doing for valentine's day?" and when I told her "nothing" she said "good" so what are we doing? "NOTHING"