Broke up

Hey man,
Good luck. I went through a LOT of break-ups in my day, so I know it sucks. My Advice? Get back on that horse and find another!

 

I think I heard it best, "to get over one woman, get on top of another"

 

Sorry to hear man. I actually broke up with my girlfriend this week too, we were together for 3-1/2 yrs. On the bright side, I actually got to go 4wheeling in the snow all day today with friends rather than do stupid Valentines day crap! I kinda like being single again so far to be honest. Now I'll just wait 'til the next GF I guess, this time I'm going to find one that likes going 4wheeling and stuff too!

 

WOW! Thats all I have to say about last night! Well first of all I went to pick her up and go to dinner around 7! As soon as I walked in the house she put her arm around me and said Justin, Nicholas(her little 8 year old nephew who I was extremely close to and hung out with his parents a lot, and his dad even b4 me and Ashley) has something to tell me. This kid looks like he has been crying(no glasses on and red swollen eyes) and he comes up to me and puts his arm around me and asked me if I would still come over and see him and play video games even though me and Ashley broke up....man that tore me apart(I dont like kids being sad) and I am sure she set that up...because no 8 year old will understand that on his own.

Then we went to dinner and she was happy and excited the whole time! And we talked a little and I said well now you cna drink and stuff without me being on your back! And she said Justin you know I dont drink and I am not going to start just because we broke up! I say ok! Well we finish eatting and I take her home and I go pick up a buddy so we can meet some of our friends at the movies!

We stop at a local grocery store where I used to work and where Ashley(my ex)works currently so we could get drinks there because they were cheaper! Then as soon as we walked in everyone was like u just missed ashley she come in and bought wine! (she told me she was going to her bros g/f's new apartment to stay) So I got mad and texted her saying thx for lieing and she denied it and said it was for her bros g/f! Then my cousin called and said didnt you say Ashley was hanging out with Leah(her bros g/f) tonight! I said yea she just went with them. And my cousin was like no she didnt she just lied to you! Leah and her friend were eatting at a local resturant! So I called Ashley out on it again and she denied it and said she was with them! Man was I mad by the time we went to the movies! And one of my clsoe friends is going threw the same thing and he met up with me and he just found out his ex of 3 years may have cheated on him!

But while I was i nthe movies this gorgeous girl who is like one of my best friends texted me and said she wanted to see me and talk after the movies! SO she meets me at my house and we talk for an hour! And end up kissing! Now I am confused and unsure if I should feel bad or not! And if I should still try to find out about me ex because I think she may have been cheating on me with her ex bf of 2 years and some peps are saying she was!

 

Sorry for making it so long guys! But I had to vent to the people that I know can give me the best advice! And I hope everyone had a happy vday!

 

Yea she is gorgeous..she models on the side! We have talked about dating b4 so who knows what will happen! But I am afraid that if my ex finds out about last night then she will think I have been cheating on her and I do not want a bad rep!

 

Yea that girl last night told me she wished every guy in the world was like me and stuff! And that all she wants is a guy that don't lie and want cheat on her! That guy is me!!!

 

drop the cheater

 

Yea for sure!

 

ha trust me I already know what everyone will choose...no need there...no doubt in my mind who is most gorgeous!

 

Ha this is true...last girl wasn't that good in bed anyways!

 

Yea and it would b nice to say I am dating a model!

 

haha

 

Me and her have been friends for a long time and she has been cheated on in every relationship! But she has never cheated! And I trust her already! No doubt in my mind!

 

She told me right b$ she started dating her last bf and I started dating my last gf that she wished more guys were honest like me and she could trust them! And that she would love to b lucky enough to date me!