GIRLS RUIN GUYS LIVES!

alright so i met this girl a short while ago on an offroading adventure (she came with a buddy of mine) and i immediately had to have her. she rides dirtbikes, loves offroading, basically is as awesome as a guy, but is a really cute girl. so i manage to get her number and of course called her the next day. since then we have hung out almost daily. doing whatever, constantly tlking/texting. i eventually told her that i REALLY liked her and wanted to know how she felt about me, this was last night. she told me not to even think for one second that she isnt crazy about me. so then today while we were hanging out, she randomly says she wants to go home. so she leaves in a hurry and hardly says bye. shortly after she sends me a text saying she just want to be friends! when i asked what happened between last night and now, she just said that things change, but that she still want to be friends and hang out. my stomach dropped. i thought i was going to cry or something, felt like a total bitch. and i cant stop thinking about it. THEN, i just jumped on facebook and saw that she was tagged at hooters with another guy eating dinner or something right now. ill be honest guys, i thought this girl was the one. i dont know what to do. PLEASE PROVIDE INPUT. do i just say f**k her and not talk to her anymore? or do i just be friends with her and probably never get the thought of her being mine out of my head? or do i try to get her back?

 

This is not facebook.

Edit: Or your Livejournal.

 

x2.

 

Friendzoned!

 

ah man..

well first of all, PITB.

second... personally i would bring it up to her and ask if thats why?
but it will only hurt you to stay friends with her.

 

Sounds like she's hot and she knows it. It will be a trend and it will keep happening. If you can't handle being around her knowing she's fucking other guys, then tell her to piss off.

 

Gotta roll with the punches. She says she wants to be friends then I would have found it more acceptable to find out from her that she had dinner plans with another guy as opposed to a public forum such as Facebook.

I think it would be completely acceptable for you to start being a dick to her from this point on, besides things change, you simply changed from a nice guy to a dick.

 

Repped.

They need to make these threads a bannable offense.

 

Been there...kinda lol. Just blow it off dude there are other girls. My wife wasn't into car clubs and shows etc but got into it after we got together. I'm not being an ass at all when I say this but dont let it get to you. If she sees that you wanna still hang around and hopefully want more then she may use that to her advantage so she can run back to you every time something doesn't go her way. Just my 2 cents bro. GL

 

alright. to the first few, thanks for the help, thought this was in the offtopicdiscussion section and shit like this gets brought up all the time. and i have testicles thanks. i guess i wouldnt say she ruined my life, but it is fucking with my head. and itll be WAY hard ot just move on, but it might be for the best

 

pics of said girl?

 

just fuck her sister, it always helps. dont ask me how i know.

 

You're crying to the internet because some chick you knew for a couple weeks had dinner at Hooters with another dude.

No you don't.

Best advice thus far.

 

Really

Dear Abby is on the 3rd floor

 

dang dude, um, fuck off? if it bugs u so bad then idfk, go stare at another web page?

 

BAAHAHAHA!

x2

 

Wow! This is the time to read the post and choose to go else where, contrary to popular belief if you don't like what you are reading it is possible to hit the back button and browse else where without adding to your post count with comments such as those.