Now what

Some of my TW buddies know this already. For those who don't:

The other week I heard from an old friend. She wanted to get togehter to say hi. We veered away from each other eight years ago. So now we've gotten in touch, hung out on several occasions. She has a daughter now which has helped her to grow up. We used to party a lot togehter but we were friends. (My sister's best friend)

So now last night she tells me "I've always loved you, and I 've always cherished the good times we had."

To preempt: I'll put up the pic when I can.. Yes she's really cute.

Just what I need another woman in my life.. It's no wonder I get no sleep as it is, now I have this on my head.

 

Smoke her Meat

 

Don't try and figure things out, mentally not worth it.
Go sloooooooooow, may be a great thing, then again maybe not. Talk, talk, and then talk some more.
True colors will always come out, good luck to ya man.

 

Have fun figuring this out.

 

^^ What? Anyway, just decide what you want right now. Sounds like she wants a little more then friends with "benefits". Just be honest with her right from the get go so your not stringing her along.

 

Bottom line: She has a kid. NOW she loves you.

 

damn, I go away skating, and chasing some broads...and I come abck to this...

 

I would normalyy tell you to just tap it. but, as she has been a friend for a long time and has strong feelings for you my answer has to change. Take it slow, she is obviously not the same person she was earlier in life and there is the kid to consider. Don't go throwing yourself all in just yet, play it by ear and see what happens. Or you could try for a three way with her and your current girl. My2 cents.

 

spoken like a true champ John!

 

Proceed with caution in this situation. Do you also know the father of her kid?

 

Thanks pal

No, we both had our kids around the same time. Without the others knowledge. Besides she makes good bank. It's not a daddy or money issue. She just paid cash for a new SUV so thats not it.

Nope. She doesn't know my ex-wife either.

Yeah I hear ya. That would be fun.. Or maybe not.. She has chaged a lot in the head. Her body still looks great.

I'll just keep it simple and easy for now. We've both had some hard knocks thrown at us over the years we were apart.