So GF and I decided to take a break....

I didn't read ever post,so someone may have already said this.....

What little I have learned about women, is that they ALL go through some crazy party phase in their twenties. Some do it and get over it while still in a relationship and others take a few years to get over this phase. Until a women is in her mid twenties and has a time period in her life that she isn't keen to talk about, don't get to serious because it is still to come.

Saying you will stay friends and be in each other life is BS. I still talk to a few Xs, but that only because of FB. I never hung out with them, it never works out.

Friend Is a Four Letter Word by Cake

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=egmMMzt28g8

 

Yeah she got mad at me for going out the night before we broke up finally, we were on break at the time. She saw that I got tagged in pictures with other people guys and girls at a party. She called me after we broke up and got mad and thought I didn't care and slapped her in the face, even tho that wasn't the case at all and I had to tell her so...

And then her calling me this morning to see if there was a test... I call BS. I picked up answered her question and said bye monotone.


She saw where I set my stuff down in class, and then when I came back I saw her sit in the back 2 seats to the left... She never sits in the back, always gave me crap for it when we were together. And we sat in the front before the break up. Now she sits in the back... Ran into her, awkward smiles exchanged.

 

Going to the same school/classes will make the situation even harder. But legit, just give it time and you'll both get over it. No big deal brother. You're still super young.

 

Well we go to class Mon Wed, same classes. Tue Thurs we don't see each other. May 15 is the last day of semester.

 

Didn't read the entire thread but agree with the last few posts. Leave it.
My last gf was like that, with the whole "I'm just getting annoyed with you a lot" and bitching about stuff I did that was normal, ie calling me rude for giving some helpful advice to her parents about her car. It was very similar to your situation, although when I did break it off she wasn't clingy and we went our separate ways.
After you do it, you will realize how dumb you were for sticking around as long as you did. I had the same feeling. But, you live and learn.

 

she hit the nail on the head. I had to learn this the hard way 2 years down the road. If they can't be there for you when you are in a bad spot and be understanding of both peoples different situations, there is no point in staying together because it will never work

 

8 pages for 6 months of teeny love. Wow TW.

 

You just added to the count (I know I am too, but I don't care).

 

I miss my man up your being a little bitch thread

this shit is so funny I didn't get past the 2nd sentence....why do kids these days need to make their love lives public?

This isn't fakebook in case OP hadn't noticed.

 

Fixed

 

these threads.

yeah OP, she's immature. you're too clingy. . . don't talk to her for a good month. after that you're safe to "act like friends" even though all those feelings and shit will still be underlying. anyway, move on and have fun in college. . . in a few years ya'll might not both be goofs anymore and can make it work, but not now.

 

Being single in college is so much better..trust me. I was in your shoes last year. Broke the shit off and I've never been happier. Go meet some new people

 

Yeah and she said that I was the more immature in the relationship... Not seeing that since our breakup because I have taken it much more mature than her.

 

so posting this on here is mature..?

I guess she posted her break up/pity me thread in her Sesame Street forum?

 

Veet, is this a bad time to introduce you to the UG?

 

Time to man up, dawg. Seriously, a flakey young gal isn't worth your stress energy. Bite your lip, creep a tear, have a 12 pack and go rail some new young hotty. You'll feel right as rain the next morning and never look back.

 

An old pilot friend told me this... For every ten that won't, there's ten that will.

 

Read the bold parts, you have no idea what mature is yet buddy. Not trying to be rude

 

I'm not real sure why people keep commenting on this thread to be honest.

 

^Ask yourself because you just did