finding out if wife cheating on me - story

Dude you're working off a "I'm not positive, but..." from a neighbor. What else you have? Has your wife's demeanor and behavoir changed toward you in the last couple years? Has your sex life changed markedly? (could be more or less sex). Is she more defensive toward you? Does she seem detached? Does she seem nervous around you? Is the house (and especially the bed & bath) unusually clean? Sheets changed more often? And if you have a 7 year old, where would the kid be when this guy supposedly comes over? (You're out of town but where's the kid?). Does the kid seem different to you? (like they're hiding something / been told not to talk). What does the kid say about mom?

My advice .. if things are bad, talk to your wife. I'm not saying ask her direct. But carrying around this secret assumption isn't good either. Because if you're wrong, you just lost years. And that's not good for you or your family. So what's going on that makes you think it's gotten to the point of an affair? If you think you need counseling, don't be afraid to talk to your wife about it. You're not a pussy for asking for help. You're a f*cking hero.

 

Im wondering how exactly OP was going to get DNA from the suspected cheater to compare

 

I assume if it didn't belong to him or anyone in his family, that would be suspect enough.

Still, the cat is likely. I'd lock that pussy up when you're not around OP!

 

Thats pretty flimsy to end a marriage. If your that deep I would say the marriage is already over. So just because you find a male human hair that isnt yours it means she is fucking him? By that logic she is fucking the cat, get out now

 

spectorsoft ,detailed billing/verizon you go to site and see all the # called or texted to and from, and patience DO NOT talk to your wife about it....untill you are convinced one way or another. If she is cheating she is just going to hide it better if she isnt then she is going to be pissed that you suspected her.

 

Hmmm, is that kinda like a vibrator for her

 

Damn OP, you went to the expense of having a DNA test done on a hair? Man, like a few others have said. Sit down and talk with her. There is obviously some weaknesses in your marriage you should work on.

And, if when you are screwing your wife now it seems like your throwing a hot dog down a hallway, then sorry, she's cheating on you with "beard" man.

 

note to self: next time I fuck a married woman, sprinkle cat hairs everywhere

 

I did. Had my suspicions. I asked. Was told no. Then I bugged the phone line and recorded all house calls. I told her to GTFO and I upgraded to a higher quality spouse.

You see, this was back before the invention called the cellular telephone. But the cool thing w/the cell is that it records every phone call in and out. Unless they get one on the side.

If there's emailing going on, well there's ways to sniff out all the clear text as it goes by, easily done with a decent router.

You can install discreet cameras that can record activity. That can get costly.

You can ask a mutual friend too. The ones w/the good morals and all. Sometimes they won't come to you, but if you ask, they may clue you in.

Or you can always ask the cat!

 

That's not what she told me......just sayin.

 

^^^^^haha...exactly...Do you?

 

its pretty easy to hide cheating if you have been doing it for years. dont ask me how i.. knew.

agree, but we have to see the video of the hidden camera

DO NOT TALK TO HER ABOUT IT. cause she will hide it better!
if a neighbor has enough to come and tell me about a car thats only coming over late at night when im out of town and a guy is going into the house i would be in full blown detective mode.

boom, done deal

so once again if someone tells you that a car is coming only when your out of town, late at night, and its a guy you would just dgaf about it?

kids sleep at night. just sayin..
DO NOT TALK TO YOUR WIFE

bam, good advice right here.

if you talk to her she will hide it better.


OP im sending you a PM

 

True. I'm going on the assumption that if he crossed some boundary that made me uncomfortable I'd let him know and give him a chance. I kinda wonder what else there is to this story though. If it was an isolated incident with someone you otherwise trust, why not just let it go, and why post it here? Makes me think OP has some other suspicions.

Unless we just need some troll spray. Always a possibility.

 

I agree 100%. Some people never learn that drama isnt worth it. If you cant trust her then she isnt the one for you

 

How much did the DNA test cost you??

 

i didnt go thru the 4 pages.....


But is this shit for real???

Or is this the BEST joke I have heard in a while......?

 

Can you really trust anything that bleeds for a week and doesnt die ?

 

damn that was a true lol story bro. so is your cat tappin that azz or what? lol

 

Lol but would you marry anything you cant trust? Honestly if you cant trust any of them then the trust issues are your own. It may be hard to believe but not all women are whores