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Forgive a Cheating Spouse?

Discussion in 'Off-Topic Discussion' started by jeremy_283, Mar 23, 2012.

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Do you forgive after cheating?

Poll closed Mar 28, 2012.
  1. Yes, I forgive them and accept them back

    16 vote(s)
    6.4%
  2. No, I kick them to the curb

    235 vote(s)
    93.6%
  1. Mar 25, 2012 at 7:44 AM
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    rleeharris

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    Can a marriage survive infidelity? Yes. it can. But not without significant rebuilding over time of the trusting and loving relationship. Many have done it but I believe most couples can not survive that journey.

    My first wife cheated on me and I literally kicked her to the curb the day I found out. That was 18 years ago and I'm glad I made that decision. She hasn't changed her ways having gone through numerous failed relationships and two additional marriages. It's difficult for someone prone to cheat to never cheat again.

    Incidentally, she called me last year to remind me that it would have been our 20th anniversary... I could hear the regret and jealousy in her voice. I had pity but no remorse. I've been remarried for 16 years and have a wonderful family life. No regret here.
     
  2. Mar 25, 2012 at 8:01 AM
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    JDMcQ

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    What if she cheats on you with another girl?
     
  3. Mar 25, 2012 at 8:07 AM
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    TacoDawgfan

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    Then you're a lucky man. ;) :crapstorm:
     
  4. Mar 25, 2012 at 8:10 AM
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    JDMcQ

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    :laugh:
     
  5. Mar 25, 2012 at 8:13 AM
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    jtgroce

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  6. Mar 25, 2012 at 8:14 AM
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    rleeharris

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    I'm not sure... that's not saying much about a man that drives their significant other to bat for the other team.
     
  7. Mar 25, 2012 at 8:15 AM
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    TacoDawgfan

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    It's turning into a thread about my work place? :notsure: :eek:
     
  8. Mar 25, 2012 at 8:17 AM
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    JDMcQ

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    Whore
     
  9. Mar 25, 2012 at 8:23 AM
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    x2, when u work with a lot of females you get to hear it all no matter if you want to or not
     
  10. Mar 25, 2012 at 8:24 AM
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    TacoDawgfan

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    True but might have some fun for a little while anyway. :D
     
  11. Mar 25, 2012 at 8:25 AM
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    Girls can fool around with the same sex and not be gay...Men, not so much.
     
  12. Mar 25, 2012 at 9:15 AM
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    wut

    Hey , I just don't spread them out over a couple forums like some people :)
     
  13. Mar 25, 2012 at 9:19 AM
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    Centralized. Very efficient, I like it.
     
  14. Mar 25, 2012 at 10:13 AM
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    + hundred bajillion times!

    TRUST! relationship is built on a TRUST, I trust my wife with everything and she has proven to me many, many times I CAN trust her. Once she breaks that TRUST by lying or cheating its all over, I would never be able to trust her again.

    Now if she brings one of her girlfriends for a three way, I wouldnt consider that cheating...lol I wish :eek:
     
  15. Mar 25, 2012 at 11:50 AM
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    That's just cause you can't come up with any good topics and you put your two cents in on everything.
     
  16. Mar 25, 2012 at 12:37 PM
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    U Mad ?
     
  18. Mar 25, 2012 at 2:26 PM
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    Which actually equals $.0002. Just sayin. ;)
     
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