Quickies

Yep been there done that and bad habit to get into.....but there only little, for a little while so ejoy and relish every moment. Before you know it you'll be missing that innocent little smile and coughing up 4k for braces for a sassy mouth......
....just sayin'

 

We have brought ours to our bed a few times on weekend mornings just so we could get a little more sleep.


Have a good weekend guys. Were taking our boy to my mother in laws tonight and getting some drinks on the way home

 

and afterward engaging on deep, thought inspiring conversation and a game of Scrabble.

 

Sienna has slept in our bed a few time with us. Couple in the morning when more sleep is needed for everyone. She had a few times in the early morning with bad dreams.

We don't encourage it at all and it's usually a last resort kinda thing. It hasn't happened in quite awhile now. Kid flops around to much anways. Get hit in the face and shit.

Tonight Rach and I have been playing "how horny can one make the other". Make out quick and hard. Quick neck play. teasing around the top of the pants.

 

wait till they grow up and move out....... and then they call at just the right time.

 

Ya know, never really had this problem. Kids, both of em(5 and 3 right now) have always gone to bed with no issues, so when we put them down, 8-9pm, we had time before we went to sleep. But we also tend to stay up later than you I think. Just gotta prioritize which is more importnat...sleep or sex, lol.

I do however like that someone threw out Nyquil before I had a chance to say Benedryl, lol. Makes me feel better on some level, lol.

 

We're parents...with young kids. We're allowed to make jokes about nyquil and benedryl (and gorilla tape). It helps maintain a bit of sanity.

 

as does threatening to put them in the freezer

 

The quickie turns into another kid, at least for me it did. I feel your pain.

 

Sub'd...with a 7 yo and a 15 week old it is damn near impossible to find time. Keep the ideas coming!

 

Not trying to cause trouble here, but been thinking about this.... how much work are you guys doing around the house? How much does your wife do? Who cooks? does dishes? cleans? etc... if that's not 50-50 most of the time, then you don't deserve a "quickie". If you go to work and come home and expect her to have everything done, then you need to man up and HELP around the house. You live there, too.

 

Hey, Susan

I can see that chip sitting on your shoulder from way over here!
All kidding aside, my wife and I did have a discussion about that at one point and fixed it. I don't mind doing dishes in exchange for other things. Haha

 

poor guy

 

I agree with Susan actually, She does dishes, i do laundry, all chores are broken up between us.

Now on to the nookie. You need to plan this stuff and make shit happen, whether or not she does. Take matters into your own hand, not your happy sock. On Tuesday, right after the kid goes to bed, take her into the bathroom, close the door and sit her on the counter. Drop down like a real man and munch that carpet till the drapes fall off, and then just walk out and climb into bed. Dont ask for anything, just call it a night. Now that she has slept well, Wednesday night, you might sleep well.....if you know what i mean.

Spontaneity in marriage keeps it alive, and routine murders it worse than seeing your mother in law naked. Good luck

 

No chip.... just been there, done that. He did absolutely NOTHING at home, yet wanted me to have sex with him every night. Needless to say, he didn't get it. He was very selfish and didn't lift a finger to help. I had two babies under 2 and him.

think what you want... but if you don't help take care of YOUR kids and YOUR house, then she's gonna be tired and not want to "make you happy". Most guys don't get it....

 

Fugg that, woman!!

I do my share. She mainly cooks as I work until 7 usually. I help clean up, I help with kids. Get a bottle, feed the baby when needed. Do diapers. Give Sienna a shower/ get her dressed 4 bed. I clean plenty. I was the last one to clean up our daughters disaster areas (bedroom and basement) I do the nitty-gritty daily pick up, vacuum, straighten up, she'll take on the bigger stuff that takes a little longer, bathrooms, kitchen. I dole out more discipline than mom does (it was hard this evening, I kept laughing).

..and I've been taking PT night classes at the Community college on top of it.

She was shoving her hand down my pants this evening, so she must not think I'm a total lazy turd.

 

If you do your share, then my comment doesn't apply to you. It was directed at the guys who don't do anything.

 

which guy said they don't do anything

 

None said it - I was going on my experience when my boys were babies.

 

Lol sounds like you got a dud