30 and younger thread

I like the double income no kids ...... I like that alot, more pf perfect girl right there!!!!!

 

hmm... i think youre ready to get married when youre ready to get married. there isnt a timestamp on how long you need to be together first, although, realistically, i guess i wouldnt go marrying a girl after 3 weeks... which is usually the bangfest of the relationship. my wedding is 4/7, but we've been together for 3 years... and two bank accounts, checking and a savings account, its our money, and DINK, so theres quite a bit it seems.. for now..

 

Haha I agree, it's different for everybody. I've been with my girlfriend for 1 1/3 years and we aren't getting married soon, but we've talked about it. As for the "bangfest" we're both waiting for marriage, but I do agree that a month or so isn't long enough to know the person.

 

waiting for marriage? you must rub that little grendel of yours until it bleeds, then beat it for bleeding....

 

Haha it does suck waiting, but it'll be worth it in the long run.

 

Well she's the only girl that has ever been at or seen my place. I havent ever brought any girl to my place. (Well the current place I live at. Old place has seen more girls that never needed to. Learned my lesson.) Never felt the need to bring anyone to the new place. Also their place feels more comfortable and I can always have an excuse to go home. Plus if they ever bring the need to stay over. I can always bring them to my friends guest house. Or I find a way to keep them up til morning. (Perks of working graveyard.) Some girls actually tried to trick me to bring them back to my place. Just because they know I've never brought anyone over. My last gf tried to get me to bring her back to my place. She usually ended up sleeping under the stars. Lol

 

Which part? Laid everything on the table? Well my gf did thought I was a player. Well that was the conclusion she came to because of my guy friends. Plus it didn't help that I was always on the phone texting with other girls. Lol

 

Actually most of the time I want to bash their heads in. Some girls annoy me. Especially when I try to hang out with my friends. It's like omg "what's your name, why haven't I seen you before?"

 

How my wife and I do money: Both paychecks get DD'd into the same bank account. She figures out the money/bills/etc, then tells me I can take $___ for the week for my gas and stuff. I take that money, and throw it in my own little account I opened. She knows about it, she has no problem with it, I'm horrible with cash. Save what I can out of about $500 every 2 weeks.

It's been working out great for mods for the truck. I spend very little of what she gives me and stockpile the rest.

 

My girlfriend and I have only been together a year and a half, but have talked about the whole marriage thing and all that. One hot topic was how to handle the bank accounts when we move in but before we are married, or even after we get married. I don't think we ever came to a conclusion, we both could kinda care less either way really. Most likely it'll be a shared account and I'll have my own on the side for personal savings. I'm sure she would be fine with that. Besides, I have a substantial amount of saving that's I want to use for a down payment on a house one day and I'd hate to have that sitting in our joint account just in the unlikely event that we get into a huge fight and break up and she goes and empties the accounts. I have no suspicions what so ever that she would ever do such a thing, but it happens more often than people think, so better to sway on the safe side I guess.

 

Me and my gf are financially independent. She's more worried about her end. She has an idea about how much I have and she knows I can take care of her if I need to. But as far as when it comes to money. As long as we can take care of ourselves. There's no need to worry about. Thankfully we haven't discussed marriage. Not in serious terms anyway. We're more curious because she's Buddhist and I'm a Catholic.

 

Yeah marriage... Kids... Scary shit. Fuck that

Did you just say bang fest!! Hahha that's awesome. But seriously shoot me now. I like to try things before I can commit to buying it... Like frozen yogurt... Idk how this chocolate pecan is but at least I can taste it before I take it home

 

I hope to stay a DINK for a while unless a dog/dogs count as kids. Haha

My wife and I were together for almost 3 years when we got engaged and had the wedding just over a year later. Have been married almost 8 months now.

 

Until you find out she's no good in the sack. it's like buying a car without test driving it.

 

ahh I like that analogy better! lol

 

This times like 1000.. then you have to pay to get rid of it..

 

talk about an expensive investment... hahaha

 

Yeah really.. costs you money until she gets married again, then it still costs money if you pop a kid out before then lol

 

yeah.. thats why if youre going for it.. make sure its a hole in one haha