30 and younger thread

Like the young Mexican guy I work with. He got a taste of the white meat. So he doesn't want a dead fish anymore. Lol

 

+1 dude. Definitely worth it.

Wife and I waited, I had a coworker that found a relationship with god much later in life (he was in his 50's) ask me about all that. Conversation went something like this.

Him: "hey so I gotta ask you something really personal"
Me: "okay, shoot"
Him: "I didn't wait to have sex before I was married and I've been reading my bible and I just wonder if I missed out on something because of that"
Me: "you want my honest thoughts on that?"
Him: "yeah, was it different? I mean like did angels sing and stuff (laughs)"
Me: "haha well you hit the important word there, different. You see I have absolutely nothing to compare it to, so yes, it was absolutely amazing. I think those scriptures are more of a practical tip to keep your head from wandering to numerous encounters and comparing other partners to the one you love. I don't think it's as spiritual a thing as it is practical."

He thought about that for a good long while then said it made total sense. Not sure what you all think of that but that's my .02 on that topic.

 

I think that's a good point but at the same time if it was bad then eh.. lol its too late for me already so oh well

 

It'd have to be pretty terrible to even notice having nothing to compare it to hahahaha. Like, painfully bad. And no, it wasn't. Like I said, just my .02 cents for anyone wondering why the bible is set up that way, those are my thoughts.

 

I classify it either casual sex or making love. If a girl asks me about it. I usually say the latter. Otherwise if they really wanna know. Then it's the former. I was raised to wait til marriage because of my religion. But along the way I became open minded. I learned to separate casual sex and making love. I can say that the feeling is different from one or the other.

 

How would you know if you have nothing to compare it to?

 

If a chick just lays there and makes you do all the work all the time. Or if a chick is a once a month or less type of girl.. although I'm 21 and at the height of my sexual prowess haha

 

Dead fish and blue moon? Lol.

 

love where this is heading

 

I tried it out before I bought it but I was too much of a nerd in high school (probably still am) so I have nothing to compare it to either. Haha.

 

Haha nothing wrong with that

 

its not about wether a woman is good in the sack or not…. its about if she can learn or not

 

toast

 

Yes yes.... extremely true.

I had an ex in my early college days that never liked, nor enjoyed Then I said, "hey, its not that you don't like it... it's because you're not doing it right, therefore you don't enjoy it. here... let me tell you how it's done..."

In the end... it was AWESOME, and she fell in love with

...she was such a champ.

 

Been there, done that ^^

They can all learn if the are comfortable, have some confidence, and are open minded.

 

I had an ex that liked to experiment. She would watch videos and wants to try it out. In high school I dated a girl that wanted to be treated like a geisha. Then there are the ones that don't like to get down. All in all the best ones are the ones that don't much experience but are willing to try things. I'll say it once more. I don't want a dead fish.

 

Look at all these good dubes in here

 

Ding ding ding!!!! I agree 100% girls with little experience or bad experience that don't know much and kinda suck at first but are willing to learn and experiment are the best! You get to teach them your ways and mold them how you like.

 

Yup. Too bad I'm spoken for. I met a couple of nice girls on their spring break. Would have liked to have some fun. At least I can keep them in the friend bucket.