the things I say these days...

So I might be a in a little pickle...

I own my house ( two bedroom 1 bath) and am dating this girl who has kids and animals..

Well she recently moved back into town and is living with her grandparents until she can get back on her feet to buy a house or rent.
Well I opened my big mouth cause I felt bad about the situation and told her that we could talk about her moving in to help her save money until she can get her own place...( I know what the heck was I thinking)


she already scheduled some people to come out an look at putting a fence at my house for her dogs to go to the bathroom in


make a long story short... she is moving in herself, her two kids, 3 cats, 2 dogs, and a bearded dragon how can I politely back out..

 

Tell her it's all a little overwhelming and you just can't go through with it. Or ask her if you can piitb, that may be more effective.

 

How long you been dating this girl?

 

you're dating, not married....
tell her to slow down.
its not like she doesnt have any place to go still.

 

haha.. well I have a cat myself and I already told her that he doesn't do well with even her kids screaming at 2-3 am and she just says i'm sorry... i'm getting eye twitchy.. I really just need a RTT and i'll just live outside...all winter..lol

 

this

 

funny you ask that.... I have known her for 15yrs... dating 3 months..:/

 

lol, you might be thinking with the wrong head!

 

Dogs are cool, bearded dragon is also cool, cats.... cats are assholes

 

I just have too big of a heart sometimes...

 

well that's the thing we haven't even really done "that" for me to even think w/ mr. wigglesworth..

 

Dating only 3 months?!?! Thats good that you have known her for so many years but having all them move in like that is a HUGE step!! Your pretty much going to be like their dad and kids are going to get messy. Of course the final decision is up to you cause she might be an awesome girl but think hard about the future and not the moment. GL brother!!

 

move her back to her grandparents. the earlier the better unless you want an instant family!

 

Change the locks on all your doors. Change your number and RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN!!!! Unless you want an instant family like people said before. Tell her she's moving way too fast for you and she needs to slow down

 

This sounds like a scenario from Oprah or Dr. Phil!

At 26 you don't need kids, dogs and woman that is getting fences built to house her dogs at your place!

Not trying to be cold-hearted, but you are dealing with a runaway train!

Better you should find out the real stripe of the tiger in three months rather than three years or three decades.

Tell her to chill on the move in and get ready to start looking for someone else to take over as her provider. There are other proms for you to dance at.

Just my opinion. Remember, opinions are like assholes, everyone has got one!

Good luck handling this situation.

 

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Tell her no! I'm sorry but you shouldn't feel bad for somebody else based on their choices. She is moving herself in you need to tell her I'm sorry but this is my house and I don't want your whole family moving in yet without talking about it. You also need to man up a little dude don't just give in without much thought and how it will affect you!

 

^^^Truth.

I'd go one step further; ditch her and her kids, and her baggage, and her problems. You are inheriting all of her bad life choices. No piece of ass is worth that.

Go find a woman who doesn't have baggage, or kids, or otherwise ruins your home life. There are around 3.5 billion women on the planet, I'm sure there are plenty to be had in your neck of the woods.

 

What kind of fence?

 

just tell her the truth.