the things I say these days...

If she lets you piitb, then you can't kick her out. That's like a rule or something.

 

The reason I said that was I think that he said he has been divorced right? If im wrong, forgive me. How long has it been? Is he rebounding? Never REALLY been alone? I say these things from experience. Been divorced myself, wife was cheating on me. Hard to get used to being alone when you have had someone there. Took about 5 years to myself before I even though of getting involved.
Being divorced myself, I know what I will and will not put up with in a relationship. Hope the OP knows his too. Be careful bud.

 

fact

 

Couple questions to ask first,

How are her handies/bjs?
How old are the kids?
How attached to the cats is she?
Dafuq is a bearded dragon? Is it one of those cool lizards that does shiz or one that lays around like a lardass?
How big is the house?
Has she ever heard of a leash and walking?
How did she interpret talking into Im going to move my ass right on in?
Do you guys have a history?

That's a SCIENTIFIC FACT!

 

I dunno man..I would run.. I mean its possible it could work, but women think in 2 ways.

Single female objectives:
1) Find true romance/sleep around.
2) get married/get impregnated
3) have children
4) have stability/income.

Single mother objectives:
1) Find stability/income.


Look outttttt

 

The bearded dragon is pretty cool. One of my Fraternity brothers had one. It just lays around but they are chill lil animals.

 

Can you swap her the bearded dragon for her moving in? I would initiate the conversation as such.

hey (insert name here) I just feel as though this is moving way to fast and I need some time to ponder if I can go from being alone to having all this comotion going on in my house. In the meantime though I can totally take care of your bearded dragon while I ponder.

Win win brah, win win

 

You're a better man than me. When asked to care for two adorable kittens for the night I said no. I wish I would have quoted Ron Swanson when doing so, "any dog under 50lbs is a cat and cats are useless," but I'm not that much of an ass.

 

quoted for hilarity

 

first off I want to say thanks for everyone's input ... It helped back up my decision. it ended up she wanting to move in before thanksgiving and my mom and I already made plans.. so it became a even more bigger mess than what I would have wanted but I ended up telling her this : I stayed up all night thinking about this whole situation that I am torn with and can't just choose one side or the other, so with that said my mom isn't going to come for thanksgiving but on the flip side I feel that I can't do something I know that would hurt her so I think the moving in idea is just too soon right now. I want her to like you and I don't feel that by doing either one is going to make something long term work out between families.. Its not a decision I came to lightly but if there is a glimpse of a long lasting future I guess we just need to take baby steps for everyone.. if you dump me cause of my decision I understand but it wasn't easy to come to this conclusion.. my ex hated my mom for no reason at all and I didn't like the tension it caused.. don't want that again....

her reply was she was really disappointed and that she had a lot to say but didn't want to get me mad at her so she is just going to focus what to tell her kids after school. then she said she already thinks any chance of her and my mom getting along is messed up because of how I had to choose and make a decision


now.. I honestly just don't care.. this point i'm just going to wrench on my truck and let the chips fall where they may...

 

So she wanted you to pick her or your mom?

 

well it came down to that pretty much.. my mom refused to come to thanksgiving and sleep on the floor of a house packed w/ ppl she has never met before..lol.. which is totally understandable.. and my "g/f" pretty much was sayin well it is what it is.. she can come or not come.. and I finally found my balls ( its cold.. it took awhile) and said no this is the way its going to be.. and at this point don't care if i'm dating someone or not.. RTT would have more room without her anyway

 

Lol, so your gf or her kids wouldn't have temporarily given up any of their living quarters to your mother?

 

Me personally family comes first and if the female wants to be apart of said family one day they are going to have to take the back burner a time or two.

 

Nevermind nevermind, it is irrelevant. YOU HAVE YOUR HOUSE BACK!

 

lol yea I don't care.. I have my house back.. and my truck.. life is good right now.. don't need a woman really anyway.. I have TW...lol

 

Lol for sure. The other question is, what about her past decisions? I mean she was with someone and had TWOOO kids with them and then what happened? was it her or him that was messed up? If it was the father that messed up, then one has to question her decision making skills/value of judgement. If it was her that messed up, then you dodged a bullet.

I mean its like completely different if her ex passed away or something, but having children with someone is no joke...and the decision to do so should be made between two people actually in love and not "soul searching." Always gotta question that when it comes to milfs.

 

Have a happy Thanksgiving brother!

 

Well, at least your out of that situation. Who knows if it'll work out between you 2 but that whole situation just seemed like a really bad idea for all involved. Good luck to you!

 

OP, I'm glad you got everything worked out.

But am I the only one who saw the pics of the GF and instantly thought she looked insane?